Not to complain and sound desperate, but I've been on here for a while and havent seen much 'action' is there something wrong with me?

How about a more optimstic blog? Or having a main photo with a shirt on and people can see your face?

Just some ideas.

Good luck.

It seems like a nice profile to me, down to earth and all, plus you are a very attractive male. I don't know what the deal is with these main photos on the thumbnails that it chops people's heads off, so maybe make an adjustment to the photo or use a different one. I can tell you that the way it looks as is makes you accidentally apprear that you are all about the bod, when I know when I pop onto your profile, it's a full regular picture. I recall seeing you before a few times.
Maybe get on the forums more. I've hardly seen you on them. Let more folks get to know you and let ladies see you are gregarious.
That's all I can think of for now. BEST WISHES AND BETTER FORTUNE SOON!!

You sound very unsure of yourself in your profile. Maybe try being a little more positive and take out the things that are negative.

RAWR!!!!!

if i was younger and lived in nebraska

You sure are a hottie with a body! Keep searching, just be honest. I found someone on the net but with plentyoffish.com Hope your search yields you great results.

Well the HOT & SEXY pics are definately nice to look at, but it leaves me to ponder the question "what else does mr hard body have to offer besides a 6 pack?"

You have a great smile so it is obvious you have a funny outgoing personality, I'd like to see you talk about some more things that you enjoy doing, maybe what you like most about your job... positive things.

PS: sorry bout the ex girlfriend hurtin ya... we all have been there done that heartbreak in one way another. Most of the time emotional band aids on people 28 and older (on average) go without saying. You will move forward and heal and be happy!!

Totally re-write your post and put only candid, non-professional shots in your profile. Don't talk about being cheated on or lied to. You are a good looking guy but professional pics reek of suspicion and negativity breeds contempt, plus fear of misogyny.

There is a lot you can do, but if I don't see candid shots and a real sense of personality and optimism on a profile.... why would I have interest? Who wants to date a negative person who is emotionally damaged and seems not to be over his ex, who is on the site just to waste time and isn't really hopeful anyhow, and who has mostly professional photos so I'm not sure if that is really him? Whew...

Change it and your mailbox will overflow.

YEAH YEAH...... WHAT YOU SAID!!! I would have said it first, but I ain't that smart! You go girl! *whistle loudly*

<----your not as good looking as me

Not all of us can be that lucky.

Post more in the forums.

And good luck!

But you are complaining...

How about a new headline?...."Desperatley Seeking...."

Deep curtsey.... thank you. I'm not usually a hit in the rate me threads as I'm too honest.

But....it was the truth.

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I missed you while you were gone, Winx.... I adore debating with you!

Thank you.

We do occasionally agree on things too.