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I know, I'm just tired of being the one who dries the tears from the crap he does or doesn't do.  Nothing will make a woman as angry or dangerous as when you screw with her child. 
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I know, I'm just tired of being the one who dries the tears from the crap he does or doesn't do. Nothing will make a woman as angry or dangerous as when you screw with her child. And I was just talking about Kali in another thread when they walked in too....DUH 
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Ya know no matter how mad you get and no matter what you say. It will go in one ear and out the other. The best thing to do is just keep doing what you do with her and show her your always there to talk too. In the long run he will regret later in life that he did not take the time with her when it was offered. I finally gave up with the arguing with the ex it does no good and just makes things more stressful. For later in life she will see and remember who was always there. I went through it with my kids as they got older they finally realized that I was the one always there for them. My son last year finally told me one night when he was leaving as he said I love you he said thank you for always being there for me no matter what. I know, I'm just tired of being the one who dries the tears from the crap he does or doesn't do. (((Lily))) I had to shield my boys from their dad putting them last or not at all for their whole lives, still doing it for the youngest... The older 2 now see what I did and do not have hardly a relationship at all with their father and absolutely no respect... I cried many tears hurting for my boys... A firey car crash was too good for that jerk... Still waiting  ... I'm sorry you have to go through it and that your daughter has to experience it as well... |
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Well stay on this thread and you will. My daughter said to me last week "Daddy never spends time with me without Miss Becky (his new gf...and I do mean NEW like 2 months new) so I told her that she could tell Daddy how she felt and Daddy would not get mad at her. She comes home tonight and he announces to me that they are moving in together in November. I rolled my eyes and walked upstairs. I asked her if she had talked to him, she said "yes" and I asked what he said to her (fully expecting him to say "this day will be our day from now on") Oh no he said to her "Miss Becky is a part of Daddy's life now and I want to spend time with both of you" If I could kill him I would.... anyone have any battery acid laying around? It's not a good idea to introduce new bf/gfs to your children so early in the relationship (IMO), let alone choosing them over your own daughter. Only a few months into the relationship and already moving in? Yeah, that'll work out.  It could be alot worse though. |
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I know, I'm just tired of being the one who dries the tears from the crap he does or doesn't do. Nothing will make a woman as angry or dangerous as when you screw with her child. And I was just talking about Kali in another thread when they walked in too....DUH Yes, She could definitely take care of business. I love Her. 
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(((Lily))) I had to shield my boys from their dad putting them last or not at all for their whole lives, still doing it for the youngest... The older 2 now see what I did and do not have hardly a relationship at all with their father and absolutely no respect... I cried many tears hurting for my boys... A firey car crash was too good for that jerk... Still waiting ... I'm sorry you have to go through it and that your daughter has to experience it as well... She is so sensitive, when I talked to her about it, I asked her if she had told him, and she said "no, I don't want to hurt his feelings" All I want is a well adjusted little girl, who has both a mommy and daddy that put her first. He used to. Whoever this girl is has done a number on him, that's for sure. It seems like alot of men just don't see what they do to their kids... Not all, but ALOT. I know alot of guys that raise their kids too, but the ones who don't REALLY don't. |
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I agree Lily... I see so many men on here and some outside of here that are great father's.. It saddens me that some men and there are some women to that don't care how they hurt their children as long as they are satisfied... All I can hope for is KARMA....
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I agree Lily... I see so many men on here and some outside of here that are great father's.. It saddens me that some men and there are some women to that don't care how they hurt their children as long as they are satisfied... All I can hope for is KARMA.... I have appointed myself as his f*cking Karma..... I just talked to him, his reasoning to move in so quickly with this woman is that he has to pay too much in child support, we were seperated for 4 years I stayed on his medical insurance and he paid me minimal child support. I was fine with it, as to me it's only a piece of paper. He recently pushed for a legal divorce. I agreed because I really couldn't care one way or another, but warned him that the state would take over and award me a TON of child support as he makes almost 100K a year and I don't make half of that. Isn't it nice how it turns out the demise of his relationship with his daughter is MY f*cking fault? No God Damn wonder I divorced him. JACKASS..... |
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please lets trade problems with the x's  pretty please Uhm, NO... not that jackass.... but I'm still pissed he treated her like that... You have every right to be too. My time with my son is my time and if my son wants to spend time with me any one i'm with is going to have to except that. Don't like it. I say don't let the door hit you in the ass.... |
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please lets trade problems with the x's pretty please Uhm, NO... not that jackass.... but I'm still pissed he treated her like that... You have every right to be too. My time with my son is my time and if my son wants to spend time with me any one i'm with is going to have to except that. Don't like it. I say don't let the door hit you in the ass.... He used to be like that, this p***y must be made of gold I suspect... |
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so I just had a conversation with the ex, and he told me that he didn't see an issue over who he spends time with since when they are all together they play together.
That makes sense right? I'm convinced that testosterone kills brain cells....
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Well I will admit it is not easy dealing with all that I had to for many years pick up the slack and still do at times. For the ex was suppose to take my son out to eat for his 26 B-day at the last minute he cancelled. Shshshsh was talking to my son around noon that day when I found out he cancelled. I felt sorry for him and what did I do told him to meet me at Saltgrass and him and I would enjoy a steak dinner together. So yet again I picked up the slack.
 But in the end I know my kids will be there for me. So in reality he will be the one left hanging when he gets old and needs then to help him out. For I just don't see them bending over backwards for him later in life. 
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please lets trade problems with the x's pretty please  Peccy could help you with that problem  Some people need to be quicker with editing    my bad *walks away* |
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Lily,
Sigh.... I feel for you. Your ex will pay the price later. Your daughter will adjust to this and file it away forever. Just keep doing what your doing. One of these days your ex will snap out of it, maybe it won't happen until her wedding day and someone else walks her down the aisle.... Why don't you try Miss Becky? It certainly can't hurt. She might be totally reasonable, and I think you have every right to met her and have access to her as she is spending time with your daughter. She can go out with her GF's on Wednesday nights. Or to a movie, ot to the library and read a book, or just somewhere else. |
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Well after todays conversation sunk in, he called after school and asked if he could pick her up again tomorrow for a short time, just himself and her.....
I said yes. Just like for the last 13 years he has to ponder and pontificate things and then make them his idea... but whatever, at least he heard me..... |
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wth???? goes to show what *new* p----- does to a man!
I am sorry your daughter has to go through that type of web. good luck lily! |
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