Hey Jane...is that really a bad boy, about the elevator situation? Geesh
thats like a fantasy thing there! You just bursted my bubble gf!!
Honestly, I think that every woman wants a good guy to marry! We want
that great man to take home to meet our parents. How do you think
parents would react to taken home that bad boy? I know my mom can meet
someone, and know right off if he is good or not! I think moms have that
instinct...I don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing!
I myself, don't like the daredevil types...I like the guys who are more
into protecting their families. The daredevil type is to careless and in
the end, I don't think they are the family type..but thats just my
opinion :)

Ahhh! unsure

You seem to fit into the catagory of those groups that want the family
orianted guy. What about the Firefighter, Police officer or career
soldier. It said women disire the guy that sacrifice themselves for the
greater command good. I can see that more desirable then the daredevil
but both have the potential to leave you alone if something unexpected
should happen.

Ghostrecon

I WENT FOR THE GOOD GUY...AND IM SO HAPPY I DID!!
HE IS EVERYTHING IM LOOKING FOR IN ANOTHER PERSON.
I USED TO GO WITH THE BAD BOYS AND LEARNED MY LESSON THE HARD WAY.....

You're are right "J" but most women don't want the good or nice guy. But
is it posiable to be to nice of a guy?

To me a bad boy is someone who you got with for the thrills you have
with that person, but I don't see them as the relationship type. I'm
personally not a girl who wants to just sleep around or date 5 guys at
once so I avoid those types of guys. I have dated some before but never
had a serious relationship with one, mainly because while dating they
showed me signs that they were not relationship material so therefore
they weren't right for me. To me a bad boy is the guy all the girls
want, the guy who doesn't really make you feel important or significant
because you're probably the 5 girl he's seen that week. I am not a fan
of the player type, I want to be able to trust that you're with me and
only me and your whole heart is in it. Otherwise why am I investing my
time and feelings? The good guy is someone you can count on, someone who
makes you happy and you can trust to be there for you on many levels. I
see the good guy as someone you want to build a life with and someone
who makes you feel loved. But that doesn't mean they're boring at all,
actually I have met nice guys who are very funny, sweet, romantic and
goofy among other things. What more can a girl ask for than someone who
can make her laugh, feel loved and cherished, while also being someone
she can potentially marry and have children with? :)

LOL badboy? You mean players? What woman think is a badboy usualy end up
in to a one night stand. And they say they not looking for that.They can
try to play it down as if it's called a badboy. But they know the truth.

What I meant is what I wrote, I consider a badboy and a player to be on
the same level and grouped in the same category. The category entitled
"I want sex with whomever I want whenever I want, I want no commitment
and I could give a shit less about other people's feelings. And that's
pretty much it." :)

Iv always gone for the badboys I consider them to be sexy not that good
guys are not sexy but Iliked the dangerous secret living on the edge
sorta thing lately Ive become more attrated to good guys b/c of the way
they approach lifeand might want to settle down easier then a badboy but
I still have that attration to guys who have the tattoos and all that so
i dont know.

does anyone here think it is possible to have a relationship minded guy
who treats you right and has that excitement that you look for?
because they are all over the place if you look hard enough. i have
never been mistaken for a badboy at first glance but everyone that knows
me knows i ain't no goody goody either. that is the main reason i
posted this thread is because where i come from there is such a thing as
a well rounded man who is not an asswhole but not a pushover either,
just a good man.

yea and please dont misunderstand what I said king Im looking for a well
rounded man its just something with the tattoos and living on the edge
that captures my attention.

Yeah I agree King, it's good to have a balance between the 2. Someone
who is romantic and a good guy but is exciting and fun also (not a
player though, exciting with that person they're with). I think that's
definitely possible and the ideal if you ask me. :)

King i wasnt calling you a hillbilly I actually havent met one in a long
time I dont think your a hillbilly.

hey good boys aren't always as they appear. like my guy he's got that
vibe about being a really good boy but get him alone and holy hell that
is a lot of fun.

Badboy? Sounds like to me, it all comes down to one thing....one thing
everyone is talking about...LABELS! I, for one, do not like for people
to put labels on ME...and I sure will not put labels on anyone
else...Badboy? People are just people...no one is the same.

Good guys do finish last, In High School. But I've found that as a
woman matures she comes to appreciate men that are "Nice Guys". There
is a certain strength in that. Think about it. "Tom Selleck, Harrison
Ford, Kevin Costner, Ty Pennington and many so called hollywood heart
throbs are generally nice guys in real life and that is half of what
makes them sexy. So guys, just keep on being nice, it will pay off.

you know...I have a good heart,and a dirty mind for sex,I wear what fits
me,what is confortable,own my truck,have my own income
and most of th time I do treat people like I want to be treated
I live my life like there is no tommorrw,as if today was my last
I like all of gods creatures(even th assholes)I do not hate.I like to
joke around and have fun,,,and I try to take care of myself and family
as best as I can...
I am told that this makes me a "NICE GUY",I try to live as
a nice guy,but have yet to meet a woman who will give me th time of
day,because I do not wear a suite n tie,or drive a Beamer...so if I am
such a nice guy,where is my mate now???
out screwing th guy with th bad attitude,in his fancy car...
any thoughts???

What is a man?????

Micheal, if all the women you meet are only out for a bad boy, or money,
you are meeting the wrong women. I know there are gold diggers, but we
aren't all that way. I never ask if he has money, and don't care
whether he does, and many more of us are like that then not. You are
either going to the wrong places, or looking at the wrong type of woman.