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Topic: Just wondering
Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:01 PM
I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk. Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me. People suck. Pretty much Well, you just have to find the ones who don't. I think there's still 2 or 3 left out there...somewhere...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:02 PM
I can't see limiting myself because of something like that. Though I must admit, if it came to living together/marriage, it would depend on how much they were able to do for themself/how much support there was from others, etc. Just being honest. I have two children, and if I were with a man who needed me to do everything for him, and I got no support outside the immediate family.......it would certainly add a lot of stress to things. By no means am I saying this is ur case, as many people in wheelchairs are very self sufficient......just a rhetorical point. Lol if people try to help me i usually get kinda frustrated so ya I'm pretty self sufficiant. I don't like people helping me either, and I'm not in a wheelchair, so that makes sense.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:03 PM
I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk. Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me. People suck. Pretty much Well, you just have to find the ones who don't. I think there's still 2 or 3 left out there...somewhere... That'll take FOREVER but I know their still out their, only problem is ,the only girls out there that are decent are taken by a**hole guys, most of the time.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:04 PM
I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk. Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me. People suck. Pretty much Well, you just have to find the ones who don't. I think there's still 2 or 3 left out there...somewhere... That'll take FOREVER but I know their still out their, only problem is ,the only girls out there that are decent are taken by a**hole guys, most of the time. Find the ones who don't like a$$holes. Some women like cute nice guys, y'know..

Plainome Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 363	Sun 09/14/08 12:04 PM
lol, I get the same thing. Most of my friends are 35+.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:05 PM
I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk. Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me. People suck. Pretty much Well, you just have to find the ones who don't. I think there's still 2 or 3 left out there...somewhere... That'll take FOREVER but I know their still out their, only problem is ,the only girls out there that are decent are taken by a**hole guys, most of the time. Find the ones who don't like a$$holes. Some women like cute nice guys, y'know.. I hope so, I'm starting to give up a little bit lol

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:06 PM
lol, I get the same thing. Most of my friends are 35+. I usually cant hang out with people unless their in their mid to late 20's or above,I just cant fit in with people my own age. lol

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:07 PM
Well, you're only 20, you have years left to find "the one," as much as I hate that term, lol. Just take your time and talk to girls/women and see what happens.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:08 PM
Well, you're only 20, you have years left to find "the one," as much as I hate that term, lol. Just take your time and talk to girls/women and see what happens. thanks

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:10 PM
Well, you're only 20, you have years left to find "the one," as much as I hate that term, lol. Just take your time and talk to girls/women and see what happens. thanks anytime...

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:19 PM
As for everyone else, More opinions would be nice but Im gonna go take a nap I didnt get any sleep last night so I'll be back later sometime.

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sun 09/14/08 12:29 PM
My sister dated a man in a wheel chair.And beleive me,He was not the one with the disabilaty.Even though not in a wheel chair.She is the one that had all the problems.Point is.Your in a wheel chair.But you sound like a cool dude.There are so many out there with worse than a chair.So never give up!There is someone out there for you.And by all means search for the one that you and her share the same love. J/M/O Good luck!

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 12:31 PM
My sister dated a man in a wheel chair.And beleive me,He was not the one with the disabilaty.Even though not in a wheel chair.She is the one that had all the problems.Point is.Your in a wheel chair.But you sound like a cool dude.There are so many out there with worse than a chair.So never give up!There is someone out there for you.And by all means search for the one that you and her share the same love. J/M/O Good luck! Much thanks

ak0 Joined Tue 09/25/07 Posts: 2505	Sun 09/14/08 01:56 PM
it would be nearly insignificant (the fact you are in a wheel chair) one cannot help to fall in love to fall in love. Good answer ,thank you its what i can honestly say. every other factor comes into play like are we compatible, do we have chemistry and on it goes. you assert confidence and poise, very attractive qualities. sounds like you're already ahead of the game...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 01:59 PM
As for everyone else, More opinions would be nice but Im gonna go take a nap I didnt get any sleep last night so I'll be back later sometime. have a nice nap, ttyl

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sun 09/14/08 05:04 PM
it would be nearly insignificant (the fact you are in a wheel chair) one cannot help to fall in love to fall in love. Good answer ,thank you its what i can honestly say. every other factor comes into play like are we compatible, do we have chemistry and on it goes. you assert confidence and poise, very attractive qualities. sounds like you're already ahead of the game... Thanks =)

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Mon 09/15/08 03:18 PM
hmmm i wonder.....anymore opinions?

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Mon 09/15/08 03:32 PM
Its who the person is, as a person that counts... Not weather a person is in a wheelchair, has a peg leg, or some form of disability. You will find that special someone who loves you for you, there truely is someone for everyone out there. I believe... The ones that can look with love at another human being- regaurdless of disabilties,color of skin, etc... and alot of other things... are far more special people than your average person. They will make your love even more special, because they know no bounds when it comes to love and will love you regaurdless. That is love in its purest form.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Mon 09/15/08 03:33 PM
Its who the person is, as a person that counts... Not weather a person is in a wheelchair, has a peg leg, or some form of disability. You will find that special someone who loves you for you, there truely is someone for everyone out there. I believe... The ones that can look with love at another human being- regaurdless of disabilties,color of skin, etc... and alot of other things... are far more special people than your average person. They will make your love even more special, because they know no bounds when it comes to love and will love you regaurdless. That is love in its purest form. Wow, thank you =)