Topic: Just wondering
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Sun 09/14/08 11:16 AM
it would be nearly insignificant (the fact you are in a wheel chair)

one cannot help to fall in love to fall in love.

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:18 AM

it would be nearly insignificant (the fact you are in a wheel chair)

one cannot help to fall in love to fall in love.
Good answer ,thank you happy

pms64's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:18 AM
I didn't look in your profile, but I think your a little young for me.
But as far as the chair, it wouldn't bother me one bit.
A person is a person. It doesn't matter if they can't see, can't hear, can't walk or whatever the case may be. That person is just that, still a person. Every person has wants, needs, feelings, desires, just like everyone else. So, why should they be treated any different? They shouldn't, and the person who does is totally wrong.
Just my 2 cents.

PMS

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:19 AM

I didn't look in your profile, but I think your a little young for me.
But as far as the chair, it wouldn't bother me one bit.
A person is a person. It doesn't matter if they can't see, can't hear, can't walk or whatever the case may be. That person is just that, still a person. Every person has wants, needs, feelings, desires, just like everyone else. So, why should they be treated any different? They shouldn't, and the person who does is totally wrong.
Just my 2 cents.

PMS

bigsmile awesome, thank you

Dan99's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:23 AM
It could be a little awkward on the lower back muscles...

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:23 AM

It could be a little awkward on the lower back muscles...
lol

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Sun 09/14/08 11:29 AM
I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:31 AM

I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.
Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:31 AM

I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.


Oh don't get me wrong I like guys with their head up their ass it makes their wallet alot more attainable.....laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 09/14/08 11:32 AM


I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.
Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me.




thats really sad. sounds like me. i dont get ppl.

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:33 AM



I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.
Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me.




thats really sad. sounds like me. i dont get ppl.
Ive gotten kinda used to it, it just makes me stronger in the end anyways.

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Sun 09/14/08 11:36 AM
don't think it would be a relationship issue, but I could totally see having to get onto my daughter to leave the chair alone..couldn't really blame a young one for that, used to love to play in them when I was little lol

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:38 AM

don't think it would be a relationship issue, but I could totally see having to get onto my daughter to leave the chair alone..couldn't really blame a young one for that, used to love to play in them when I was little lol
Lol alot of kids wanna mess with it at the store or something I dont care anymore, being in a wheelchair is actually quite fun at times.

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Sun 09/14/08 11:44 AM


I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.


Oh don't get me wrong I like guys with their head up their ass it makes their wallet alot more attainable.....laugh laugh laugh


Never thought of it that way, good point!drinker

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Sun 09/14/08 11:45 AM


I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.
Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me.


People suck.

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:45 AM



I've never had that situation come up, but I'm with Lily about the head up a$$ disability, I'd much rather a guy in a chair than a guy who's a jerk.
Lol Ive learned never to be a jerk in a relationship, considering every girl Ive been with has either cheated on me or lied to me.


People suck.
Pretty much

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Sun 09/14/08 11:49 AM
I can't see limiting myself because of something like that. Though I must admit, if it came to living together/marriage, it would depend on how much they were able to do for themself/how much support there was from others, etc. Just being honest. I have two children, and if I were with a man who needed me to do everything for him, and I got no support outside the immediate family.......it would certainly add a lot of stress to things. By no means am I saying this is ur case, as many people in wheelchairs are very self sufficient......just a rhetorical point.


Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:50 AM

I can't see limiting myself because of something like that. Though I must admit, if it came to living together/marriage, it would depend on how much they were able to do for themself/how much support there was from others, etc. Just being honest. I have two children, and if I were with a man who needed me to do everything for him, and I got no support outside the immediate family.......it would certainly add a lot of stress to things. By no means am I saying this is ur case, as many people in wheelchairs are very self sufficient......just a rhetorical point.


Lol if people try to help me i usually get kinda frustrated so ya I'm pretty self sufficiant.

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Sun 09/14/08 11:56 AM
I'm not full of hogwash when I say this, though some people would say so......simply because they are limited by their own preferences.

I'm more concerned about someone's ability to have a stimulating conversation.

Their desire to grow and become "better".

Their heart and how they treat those around them including complete strangers.

Whether they are living their dream......or simply "existing".

Those kinds of things. Yes, I need to be attracted to the person, but unless they are just absolutely ugly........those are the things that attract someone who thinks like me.

Matt8947's photo
Sun 09/14/08 11:58 AM

I'm not full of hogwash when I say this, though some people would say so......simply because they are limited by their own preferences.

I'm more concerned about someone's ability to have a stimulating conversation.

Their desire to grow and become "better".

Their heart and how they treat those around them including complete strangers.

Whether they are living their dream......or simply "existing".

Those kinds of things. Yes, I need to be attracted to the person, but unless they are just absolutely ugly........those are the things that attract someone who thinks like me.
Well considering quite a few people have treated me kinda like crap in my life I know not to do that to others. And people say I'm more mature than what I should be lol, I have a mindset of a 26 year old because I plan ahead in life.