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Topic: If you knew
Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 09/12/08 05:19 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful True, but there are some things that are just different with a someone special that you really don't want to do with family or friends...... In the first case, it is just sick. In the second case, it can ruin friendships. true but thats why man made toys Ah, but even toys are much more fun when shared with another.......

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:20 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful True, but there are some things that are just different with a someone special that you really don't want to do with family or friends...... In the first case, it is just sick. In the second case, it can ruin friendships. true but thats why man made toys Ah, but even toys are much more fun when shared with another....... very very true

Raven100 Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 49	Fri 09/12/08 05:21 PM
NO way..had 21 years I WASTED...

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 09/12/08 05:22 PM
oddly enough...this thread is arousing me too

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:23 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. You never know. Those 10 years could have been the rest of your life. You may get killed in a car accident. You may fall down a flight of stairs. You may get sick. To know you were going to have 10 wonderful years, that is totally worth it. You never know what else is going to happen. I can have 10 wonderful years with family an friends, don't need a guy to make it wonderful True, but there are some things that are just different with a someone special that you really don't want to do with family or friends...... In the first case, it is just sick. In the second case, it can ruin friendships. true but thats why man made toys Ah, but even toys are much more fun when shared with another....... very very true for sure

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:23 PM
oddly enough...this thread is arousing me too

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 09/12/08 05:23 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. I can see your point...you are still young and have a wonderful life ahead of you and I hope you do see your dreams come true...but when you get o be my age....10 years of bliss would make up for all the crap JMO I can understand older people would jump at that but I dont wanna wait 10years with someone an not get married. I understand...have been there...and I hope for you that your "head over heels" arrives at just the right moment...and a friend of mine told me...a girl you age actually...."don't ever settle for less than 'head over heels" I felt that was the most intense thing anyone had ever said to me.....if I had heard that years ago...my life would probably be totally different today...

kerbear73 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 3884	Fri 09/12/08 05:24 PM
I am a all or nothing type of guy, and I want the golden years together

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:25 PM
for real though I'm still a believer that love can last forever both people have to want it to last forever

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 09/12/08 05:26 PM
oddly enough...this thread is arousing me too hehehe.....

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/12/08 05:26 PM
no... why put yourself thru that kind of heartache? Yeah it would be a great 10years but in those 10years you could have met someone to spend the rest of your life with. I can see your point...you are still young and have a wonderful life ahead of you and I hope you do see your dreams come true...but when you get o be my age....10 years of bliss would make up for all the crap JMO I can understand older people would jump at that but I dont wanna wait 10years with someone an not get married. I understand...have been there...and I hope for you that your "head over heels" arrives at just the right moment...and a friend of mine told me...a girl you age actually...."don't ever settle for less than 'head over heels" I felt that was the most intense thing anyone had ever said to me.....if I had heard that years ago...my life would probably be totally different today... believe me I'm taking my time finding the perfect guy for me. had lots offers but they were not the one.