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Topic: Tell me something????
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 07:49 PM
I don't know how some people sleep at night

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Fri 09/12/08 07:51 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback Fear of commitment, insecurity, infidelity....I'm sure there are many reasons.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 09/12/08 07:54 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback Fear of commitment, insecurity, infidelity....I'm sure there are many reasons. I prefer to call them selfish, confused jerks, and move on to the next victim- er, person.

mixie629 Joined Thu 08/21/08 Posts: 134	Mon 09/15/08 03:42 PM
People change their minds. When something isn't fun anymore, they stop doing it. You dont' have to be a rocket scientist to figure this one out. so does that make it right?????? you asked why people do it. I didn't say it was right.

Pixiefire Joined Sat 08/09/08 Posts: 2	Mon 09/15/08 04:02 PM
I have always wondered that myself and i believe it has something to do with what i call greener grass syndrome. People look on here meet someone and thing their wonderful but then someone else contacts them and then that person is better. it's like that old saying "The grass is always greener in the other pasture"

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 09/15/08 04:07 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback They'er so call attentions was to be that way, but somthing better to them came along and thats when you see the real side where they just don't care, came out.... there is no answer to this. It just is. Being an ass, there is no other answer and to make excuses of maybe this and maybe that. HUH! Someone dumps you there is no other answer then you got dumped. Take this for what it is....

purpleraven5000 Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 29	Mon 09/15/08 06:19 PM
Its a big combination of ego and being a committment phobe. Some people, both men and women, just seem to be hardwired to treat others this way. But what goes around comes around and eventually even the worst of this kind invariably come up against the one that can break their heart and it all comes crashing down...believe me I've seen it happen to the one person that I thought never would be broken.

Lord_Psycho Joined Thu 06/26/08 Posts: 14878	Mon 09/15/08 07:51 PM
whn i go to sleep i lay on my Bed pretendin that every1 is dead!!! LOL

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Mon 09/15/08 07:52 PM
Are you talking about Lorena Bobbit? LOL

AtrueOne Joined Fri 04/04/08 Posts: 1258	Mon 09/15/08 10:45 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback Because they lack the ability to be totally honest about themselves and there desires. If a person communicates clearly upfront what they want, what their expectations are, and their ability to remain constant, there would be far fewer issues like this.