So there's this person I used to talk to on here- I won't name names to protect the corrupt, LOL- but we stopped talking because he made me uncomfortable. So I deactivated my profile- not because of him, just because I got bored- and forgot about this site and months later I came back, a few days ago, to be exact.

So he found me again. I guess I had forgotten what a jerk he could be, so stupid me, I started talking to him again. And guess what? He's even more of a jerk now than he was then. Got mad at me for not wanting to meet him, even though we barely know each other, got mad at me for not being the same person I was back then- god forbid a woman evolves into the type of person she wants to be, instead of remaining the clone/doormat he thinks is "sexy." Called me names and said I was bitter and stupid. Just got mad at me for a lot of stuff. Told me I thought I knew everything, yeah right, that's why I'm so "happy" at this point in my life, I know it all, LOL.

So my point is this, when you decide to cut someone out of your life, even if it's just on here, follow through. Do not feel sorry for them when they come back, whining or claiming they've changed. It'll only be more of the same and life is too short for drama of the unpleasant kind!

Good for you!!!

It really annoys me when a guy gets mad because you don't want to meet right away. Give us a little time to get to know you before that. We live in a crazy world. Why don't they understand that we just want to be careful?

Exactly. And we hadn't really talked that much before. I have no idea what he was basing all this on, besides the obvious. Pretty sad.

Thanks :)

use scissors to cut them out

only thing I can say for sure is...
everyone's endstinks!!

it isn't rocket scince... and you are not responsible for another's perception of who they want you to be...

This is why my feathers get ruffled with all the 'play nice' threads...

Playing nice, gets one often times abused.

Play true... play fair, and NEVER play nice for nice's sake.

And ALWAYS trust your gut.

That's good that you got rid of that jerk... Nobody needs that in their life

Yeah, when he tried to talk to me again, I should have ran away. But I was trying to be nice. No more.

Ok enough, I'll leave you alone...sorry!

LOL, you big silly! It wasn't you. I think he's hiding somewhere.

Well, his personality stinks, which is even worse.

GO GO GIRLPOWER!!

hellz yeah!! woo hoo!!

I'll use the ones with a dull blade, to make it smart.

I can not say it clearly enough BEING NICE is not taking abuse off someone who is pushy, demanding, rude, vulgar, whines, pleads you are not fair, Christian or non-predudice or not greedy or has to anyway or another crowd you into something you do not want to do. If a person gives you the "FEELING" something isn't quite right you do not have to quantify, explain, apologize, or feel guilty about just listen to the GOOD COMMON SENSE you have and move forward. THEY need to learn to to be considerate, courteous, and have enough self esteem and ability to sustain themselves to wait until you are ready to commit to continueing the relationship. If you have to buy a relationship all you have is a whore and that terms applies to either gender.

I would encourage you to report this person to the moderators. It may not be a big thing but when it is a chronic thing they are defintely going to take it seriously. It makes a very good case for copying things and keeping your personal info to yourself until you are really sure about a person. Good people respect common sense.

dont look at me when you say that

awww, i'd never cut my rare. hugs..