Even to my "old" friends from the other site... Two years ago, my cousin's boyfriend and father of her now three year old son was murdered. Shot in the back through his vehicle as he was trying to get away from a drug deal gone bad. Michael may not have been the most upstanding citizen in the world, but he certainly did not deserve THAT... Today, his killer, Danny Eugene Daniels, was found guilty and given a life sentence. I thought I would be happy about that, but I'm really not. So many people have been effected by this tragedy already, and now that family has lost their son as well. Our family, Michael's (the victim) family, and now their family. It all saddens me to no end that all of this has come about over twenty dollars worth of DOPE. Makes me sick to my stomach, and I'm shaking as I write this. Don't know why I felt compelled to finally share this. Maybe I just needed to get it off my chest. It's been a difficult day for my family, but it has now finally come to a close. Rest in Peace, Michael. And know that you we miss you...

I'm so sorry that all happened and how it effected so many people. Pleased they found the culprit and he got his due in the system, but, yes, I can imagine it is a hollow victory.

HUGS

Words are hollow at times like these.

You and all involved are in my thoughts now.

HUGS

Imagine how you would feel though if the killer wasnt convicted though. AT least he DID get his punishment, even though that doesnt bring your cousins boyfriend back.

Tomorrow is a new day my friend, closure on it all can begin from now, even though that may take some time to come.

Your feelings are completely normal in your situation.

Has your family been offered services such as therapy or group sessions?

Wow. How tragic!

Rick,
I know you have not known me long nor I you , but
I CAN RELATE to this. ONLY instead of being dead I am here to deal with it as best as I can. "YOU KNOW WHAT I AM SAYIN"
I can tell you that what Dan says is right.
IMAGINE having to look into the eyes of the VIOLATOR and never see justice.
I can tell you it is far worse than anyone can imagine.I realize your family bleeds for Micheal, and I know the VIOLATORS family feels ashamed and now yes, they have lost their son.
It states in the bible an EYE FOR AN EYE. But this does not make you feel any better.
YOU MUST REMEMBER HIM IN GOOD TIMES, not this horrible circumstance.
If ya need me you have my number ..
IN MY PRAYERS,
Ayita

RIP Michael

and prayers for you mr brightside

Thank you guys... And no, no family services have been offered that I'm aware of. Not that I need it, but my cousin could probably use some. The biggest tragedy in all of this is little Kayden having to grow up without his father. I already know what that's like. Poor kid...

I'm sorry...thats terrible.

If you feel that your cousin needs further supports, contact the court house and see if they offer family homicide services or sometimes the city that you live in (depending on the size) will offer services (contact police department). Also each state usually has therapy/counseling on a free to low cost scale depending on income. The death of a loved one is always hard and when there are other factors involved it can be tougher, encourage her to seek help and be sure to have the numbers with you when you talk to her.

Best wishes for you and your family.

wow

manhugs rick

The son of a friend of mine was found (after being listed as missing for more than 3 months), in the trunk of a car, bound and shot in the back of the head execution style. Gary was not an "upstanding" citizen by any means, addicted to drugs, in and out of jail his whole life, but he had a kind heart and certainly didnt deserve the death he received nor did his family deserve the legacy he left them with...Garys killer has never been found.

Ironcialy his mother was finally able to find peace, as she said once, at least now I know where he is and I dont have to worry about him anymore...