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<<<---New here. <<--See the date joined? <<--See the number of posts? Be patient and forgiving with newbies. Sorry you've posted enough, not a newbie anymore, no breaks... thanks for playing... |
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i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish.
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rudeness is unattractive
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i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish. Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict |
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do it do it do it do it do it do it
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i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish. Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict |
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i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish. Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict |
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Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others? Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting. I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group. Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone. PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here. I totally agree with you. I will admit I used to be like that. I was very pessimistic about dating after past relationships and it really screwed me over. I think over the time I've spent being single I've come to terms with myself and no longer am like that. My previous relationships are done and over with, so no reason to bring them back up. Time to move on and keep my spirits up and find that special someone. I'm not giving up now, because I've come a long way over the past 10 months. |
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(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it...
they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded... |
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(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it... they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded... Can I give you a hug? Not that I will do it much...but sometimes, you just earned a hug. Go, girl!!! |
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(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it... they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded... |
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I drive the short bus
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Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others? Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting. I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group. Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone. PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here. I totally agree with you. I will admit I used to be like that. I was very pessimistic about dating after past relationships and it really screwed me over. I think over the time I've spent being single I've come to terms with myself and no longer am like that. My previous relationships are done and over with, so no reason to bring them back up. Time to move on and keep my spirits up and find that special someone. I'm not giving up now, because I've come a long way over the past 10 months. Welcome to the forums and I hope you do continue to post. I have told others each post is like a billboard showing your name in lights to others. There are many here who do not post and only look. Your attractive words will attract others. It may be only a view of your profile but eventually someone will reach out. You will find her if you are honest and communicate. |
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Its not the new exactly,just the usual rude factor in life,for every few decent people just wanting a good time, there is a rude or hurt person wanting to take the spotlight and digress others to there level.Its best to ignore ,or better yet,calmly ask the "whys" of what they are going thru personally by email,either way its a emotional world of dating and it will happen to the best and worst of us.Its not a new thing to be annoying,and as an annoying noobie i resent that
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Its not the new exactly,just the usual rude factor in life,for every few decent people just wanting a good time, there is a rude or hurt person wanting to take the spotlight and digress others to there level.Its best to ignore ,or better yet,calmly ask the "whys" of what they are going thru personally by email,either way its a emotional world of dating and it will happen to the best and worst of us.Its not a new thing to be annoying,and as an annoying noobie i resent that |
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Get bent already.
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Get bent already. |
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Not much here gamma... how are you?
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