Topic: Advice for new people here
gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:39 PM


<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.
:wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



Sorry you've posted enough, not a newbie anymore, no breaks... thanks for playing...
hahahahha

no photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:39 PM
i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish.

itsmetina's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:39 PM
rudeness is unattractive

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:40 PM

i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish.


Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict bigsmile

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:42 PM
do it do it do it do it do it do it

no photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:42 PM


i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish.


Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict bigsmile
then ill call pc conflict

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:43 PM



i just try to avoid conflict altogether,arguing with someone on a computer,is just plain foolish,and childish.


Man I wish I could say what I read.. funny but not PC and don't want to start PC conflict bigsmile
then ill call pc conflict
do it do it do it do it do it do it

MarcusMisfit's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:45 PM

Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.


I totally agree with you.
I will admit I used to be like that.
I was very pessimistic about dating after past relationships and it really screwed me over.

I think over the time I've spent being single I've come to terms with myself and no longer am like that. My previous relationships are done and over with, so no reason to bring them back up. Time to move on and keep my spirits up and find that special someone.

I'm not giving up now, because I've come a long way over the past 10 months.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:45 PM
(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it...

they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded...

scoundrel's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:52 PM

(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it...

they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded...


Can I give you a hug?
love

Not that I will do it much...but sometimes, you just earned a hug.
drinker drinker

Go, girl!!! :banana:

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:54 PM

(((gamma))) ok but I know I'm going to end up arguing about it...

they say... arguing on the computer is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win you're still retarded...
hey i rode the short bus

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:57 PM
I drive the short bus :banana: :banana: :banana:

itsmetina's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:57 PM
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/164448

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:58 PM


Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.


I totally agree with you.
I will admit I used to be like that.
I was very pessimistic about dating after past relationships and it really screwed me over.

I think over the time I've spent being single I've come to terms with myself and no longer am like that. My previous relationships are done and over with, so no reason to bring them back up. Time to move on and keep my spirits up and find that special someone.

I'm not giving up now, because I've come a long way over the past 10 months.


Welcome to the forums and I hope you do continue to post. I have told others each post is like a billboard showing your name in lights to others. There are many here who do not post and only look. Your attractive words will attract others. It may be only a view of your profile but eventually someone will reach out. You will find her if you are honest and communicate.

Socratease's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:58 PM
Its not the new exactly,just the usual rude factor in life,for every few decent people just wanting a good time, there is a rude or hurt person wanting to take the spotlight and digress others to there level.Its best to ignore ,or better yet,calmly ask the "whys" of what they are going thru personally by email,either way its a emotional world of dating and it will happen to the best and worst of us.Its not a new thing to be annoying,and as an annoying noobie i resent thatglasses

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 09/11/08 12:01 AM

Its not the new exactly,just the usual rude factor in life,for every few decent people just wanting a good time, there is a rude or hurt person wanting to take the spotlight and digress others to there level.Its best to ignore ,or better yet,calmly ask the "whys" of what they are going thru personally by email,either way its a emotional world of dating and it will happen to the best and worst of us.Its not a new thing to be annoying,and as an annoying noobie i resent thatglasses
drinker drinker drinker

wiley's photo
Thu 09/11/08 12:01 AM
Get bent already.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 09/11/08 12:01 AM



Sorry hun, OC was right SCAM...

gammalight6000's photo
Thu 09/11/08 12:01 AM

Get bent already.
what up mang

wiley's photo
Thu 09/11/08 12:02 AM
Not much here gamma... how are you?