Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.

Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend/girlfriend/wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.

Advice to nobodys? I don't see any new people on here tonite?

<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.

I think everyone here can do some self-reflection on what I wrote. Look at your posts lately. Are you overly negative? Or is it a once in a blue moon thing?

We all need help from our down days. Message your friends, try to keep it off the boards. If you really need a pat on the back then definitely post but don't make it a normal thing.

What if you called your friend up and they moaned or *****ed about something every time? Yes, you care about your friend but at some point you are not going to be calling.

<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.