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Topic: Advice for new people here
DestinysDream's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:18 PM
Edited by DestinysDream on Wed 09/10/08 11:20 PM
Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.

chevylover1965's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:20 PM
drinks

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:21 PM

Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend / girlfriend / wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.


'O Rly?surprised

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:21 PM
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JusWannaSayHi's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:21 PM

Are you here to date? Have fun? Or whine and moan? Do you think someone wants to date someone who whines and moans at others?

Post! Post! Post! But don't whine, moan, argue, criticize, tell us you are not over someone, are giving up or don't know where the "real" ones are. Your dates will likely continue to be with losers. That's who you will be attracting.

I know many don't give a crap (that's just how some are) but this had to be said. The pessimism of many older posters is spilling over onto new posters. That's why many are asking what happened to the forums. This place has become a support group.

Show everyone you are worth talking to and people will approach you. Be funny, casual, caring, loving or whatever you want in someone.

PS: There are some fantastic people here who have been posting for quite awhile. Search those people out. Remember your future boyfriend/girlfriend/wife or husband could be reading your words. Attract them and don't detract from yourself. You can find them here.



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drinks PREEEECH IT SISTA!!drinks

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Wed 09/10/08 11:21 PM
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IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:21 PM
OMG (((DD))) THANK YOU!!!!

catchme_ifucan's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:22 PM
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NO Whiners!



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itsmetina's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:22 PM
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FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:23 PM
What? You mean to tell me this isn't common sense? I mean really?

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:24 PM
Advice to nobodys? I don't see any new people on here tonite?

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:25 PM
pitchfork iM oNe Of tHe eViLpeOLPE tHAt tHe neWIBIes sHOUld fEaR.pitchfork

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:25 PM
i am a loser i guess:(

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Wed 09/10/08 11:26 PM
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scoundrel's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:36 PM
Edited by scoundrel on Wed 09/10/08 11:36 PM
<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.
:wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:37 PM

Advice to nobodys? I don't see any new people on here tonite?


I think everyone here can do some self-reflection on what I wrote. Look at your posts lately. Are you overly negative? Or is it a once in a blue moon thing?

We all need help from our down days. Message your friends, try to keep it off the boards. If you really need a pat on the back then definitely post but don't make it a normal thing.

What if you called your friend up and they moaned or *****ed about something every time? Yes, you care about your friend but at some point you are not going to be calling.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:38 PM

<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.
:wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



Sorry you've posted enough, not a newbie anymore, no breaks... thanks for playing...

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:38 PM
Edited by gammalight6000 on Wed 09/10/08 11:39 PM
man the couch is being worn out..time for a new one..

session closed

that'll be 100 bucks

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:38 PM


Advice to nobodys? I don't see any new people on here tonite?


I think everyone here can do some self-reflection on what I wrote. Look at your posts lately. Are you overly negative? Or is it a once in a blue moon thing?

We all need help from our down days. Message your friends, try to keep it off the boards. If you really need a pat on the back then definitely post but don't make it a normal thing.

What if you called your friend up and they moaned or *****ed about something every time? Yes, you care about your friend but at some point you are not going to be calling.


I'd still call...kind of the point of caring about friends...

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:39 PM

<<<---New here.






<<--See the date joined?
<<--See the number of posts?

Be patient and forgiving with newbies.
:wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


I like it! bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

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