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Topic: Do you hold back
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 09/10/08 12:23 PM
or do you let loose with the emotions? If you are a holder backer do you think you have lost relationships because you didn't say what you could have? If you are a letter looser do you think you have lost relationships because you came on too strong too fast?

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Wed 09/10/08 12:24 PM
Holder backer of emotions

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Wed 09/10/08 12:26 PM
I only really let loose with one relationship and I am sure it killed it! I am to honest for my own good and I did warn him that if he didnt leave me alone I could fall for him. Guess that was way to much.

southern_bee Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 4812	Wed 09/10/08 12:28 PM
well im a mix of all that but well mostly im always honest and i think that makes people uncomfortable

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 09/10/08 12:29 PM
Depends on which buttons are being pushed.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 09/10/08 12:32 PM
I tend to hold back as well...and if I lost a relationship cuz of it...I just move on...never dwell in the what might have beens

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Wed 09/10/08 12:36 PM
Think it depends on the situation but in some areas, I hold back, especially if it's a waste of time and energy. Where things that are truly important to me with people I know and am comfortable with, I don't hold back.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Wed 09/10/08 12:39 PM
I tend to hold back until I'm sure of the feelings then well I let go but not to the point that they are running away. Just the right amount lol There is a time and place for everything. I not so overwhelming that they get embrassed by it keep the good stuff for when your alone with them lol

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Wed 09/10/08 12:44 PM
I tend to hold back until I'm sure of the feelings then well I let go but not to the point that they are running away. Just the right amount lol There is a time and place for everything. I not so overwhelming that they get embrassed by it keep the good stuff for when your alone with them lol What she said

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Wed 09/10/08 12:48 PM
I'm really laid back and rarely do I complain about anything. There are things that bother me but rather than argue or let my emotions flow, I just hold it in. And then sometimes I let loose about something I probably shouldn't. So I know I have to be more open with the little things. I have learned through past relationships that communication is KEY so I am really good about talking about things. Just when something "she" does or someone else does, I do not "pick" about it, I let it roll off my back.

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Wed 09/10/08 12:51 PM
or do you let loose with the emotions? If you are a holder backer do you think you have lost relationships because you didn't say what you could have? If you are a letter looser do you think you have lost relationships because you came on too strong too fast? holder backer..

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/10/08 12:53 PM
I farted.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 09/10/08 12:58 PM
I farted. This is an example of things you should hold back.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/10/08 12:59 PM
I farted. This is an example of things you should hold back. But I could internally combust if I do.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Wed 09/10/08 01:00 PM
I farted. This is an example of things you should hold back. But I could internally combust if I do. And your point

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/10/08 01:06 PM
I farted. This is an example of things you should hold back. But I could internally combust if I do. And your point Well. If I hold, it builds up, and thus, I get pain and cramps, and that sucks. Need I go on?

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Wed 09/10/08 01:06 PM
Well. If I hold, it builds up, and thus, I get pain and cramps, and that sucks. Need I go on? Just don't shart

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 09/10/08 01:08 PM
Well. If I hold, it builds up, and thus, I get pain and cramps, and that sucks. Need I go on? Just don't shart or fit....

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/10/08 01:09 PM
I'll just run outside and do it. Ahhhhhh!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Wed 09/10/08 01:10 PM
Holder backer