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Topic: Internet vs. real personalities...
Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:45 AM
Edited by Lily0923 on Wed 09/10/08 11:47 AM

Hmmmm. Is Lily online? She can tell you I'm just as talky, sex obsessed and outspoken IRL as here. I am who I am and I portray that as accurately as I can. I don't exaggerate or make things up.

I find it sad that has been your experience.


MORE..... you're pretty tame on here... You make me blush sometimes...

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Wed 09/10/08 11:48 AM
Boy,My rule is if they are not who they say they are.I would just walk away.Only finaly met one in person that was straight up.I am always straight up,no need to put up any fronts.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:49 AM

Boy,My rule is if they are not who they say they are.I would just walk away.Only finaly met one in person that was straight up.I am always straight up,no need to put up any fronts.


I agree, and if you are happy with who you are, there's no reason to put up that front. If you are not happy with who you are, then you have no business dating until you are happy with you.

maryelizabeth10's photo
Wed 09/10/08 11:50 AM
everyone ive ever met from the net in real life were the same. they didnt change.


i dont know maybe you just have bad luck or maybe ive just had good luck.

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Wed 09/10/08 11:53 AM


Hmmmm. Is Lily online? She can tell you I'm just as talky, sex obsessed and outspoken IRL as here. I am who I am and I portray that as accurately as I can. I don't exaggerate or make things up.

I find it sad that has been your experience.


MORE..... you're pretty tame on here... You make me blush sometimes...


Coughing.... b*ll****....:banana:

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Wed 09/10/08 12:00 PM
when I'm first in a situation I sit back and watch, I want to see they dynamic of a group, or the temperature of a situation, once I feel I know how things are and who people are, you can't shut me up.... but at first I seem shy, it's not shy it's being observant.

People who act a fool just for the sake of attention annoy me. Those people soon don't like me, so if a situation is a calm and tame one I am calm and tame, if it is a no holds barred free for all, I'm in... I check out who the Alpha of the group is and know not to step on those toes, I too am an Alpha. I watch and see who's not being included and find a way to include them, usually those quiet people in the corner are the most fun, but they also watch for their way into the conversation...I give that to them. No one has a bad time on my watch....

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Wed 09/10/08 12:31 PM
Hey I do have a warning label that gets posted that says I type like I talk, but when I talk all my spelling is right. laugh rofl :laughing:

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Wed 09/10/08 03:16 PM

Hey I do have a warning label that gets posted that says I type like I talk, but when I talk all my spelling is right. laugh rofl :laughing:


:laughing:

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Wed 09/10/08 03:21 PM
I have some friends that I met online and then in person. I would have to say they were all like they were online. I've never had anyone tell me that I'm much different in person either.

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