Do you think you could fall for someone that you are not physically attracted to? elaborate!

Only in a non romantic way. For example, it's pretty well known I'm in love with Lexy.

Oh, where was I? Oh yes, it is a cerebral, limited love. I've never met him.... and it based on what I know.

I also am sorta in love wth my mentor, who happens to be a great friend and my boss's husband. But I'm not romantically attracted to him. It's love, just not romantic love.

I couldn't, that's just me though.

absolutely. i think much of the physical attraction grows as the like/love deepens

how many times have you looked back, after the love was gone, and wondered just what it was you thought was so handsome/pretty about a former partner?

that said, i couldn't form a relationship with someone that i thought was outright ugly, but there doesn't have to be a 'wow' upon first glance

Sorry but there has to be some type of attraction there along the way. Either looks, personality, their humor, eyes, smile ect......

There has to be a reason I'm attracted to them in order to fall for them.

Chemistry is a big factor for me if it is not there then well love them like a friend, brother ect.. But nothing more.........

But now I'm not talking looks only for that is never what I go on there has to be more then that.

They must be able to catch my attention mind wise and be able to hold it in the long run. So therefore they must be a talker or I get bored with them real easy.

Doesn't this only happen in the movies?

awwwwwwww you better be careful with that one

right.. i agree but i have to be physically attracted even if it's just alil..

Generally that is how it starts...with physical attraction. However, beauty can vanish in an instant. So, if all there is is physical attraction.....you just don't have love, my friend.

personality is everything..looks are a big plus though

thats right...you have notta

Thanks Ron, but he is old enough to be my dad and we've been friends for years. We hug and stuff, but I could so never go there. I just love him, is all. In it's purist form.

oh ok...i understand, well i see looks are are not dragging you down.good hearts+good looks dont stay single for long

yes,this happened before, I have been attracted to a woman because of her intelligence and the interesting things she would talk about (this has only happened to me a couple times). I can also be "seduced" with kindness. If a girl is really sweet to me, I can find that to be attractive even if Im not phyically attracted to her.

Yes, I do not doubt that this is possible. For I have seen a few of my freinds who when they were children were scared of the big scary monster under their beds. And years later they married that big scary monster who is now in their bed instead of under it.

i 2nd that last comment...im just a sucker!

But seriously, it is a strange feeling to be attracted to a woman for her intellect. But its happened to me couple times. I think its rare for men to do that

I love homely girls with brains and the ability to use them. Ugly ducklings grow into beautiful swans. That is after I corrupt them.

i agree and i've been there..her personality overwhelmed me. but she drank way to much. what do you do with that one..i tried to help her but that was the love of her life so yeah