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Topic: WHY....
dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:17 AM
Do some guys use other women to test their relationship?

italio69's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:21 AM
to be quite honest some do

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:22 AM
Men do not use women to test relationships.

They do what other women allow then to do, no testing involved.

dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:25 AM
why cant a guy be comfortable in a relationship without draggin someone else in?

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:28 AM

why cant a guy be comfortable in a relationship without draggin someone else in?



again, a man and woman will do all that is allowed by another party.

maybe he doesnt feel as 'into' the relationship as the other party.

maybe he doesnt feel that he is in a relationship.

maybe he doesnt care about the other party.

Who knows, if you are asking due to personal experience or feeling, ask him outright. Get a feel, follow your gutt and instincts. Good luck.






moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:29 AM
I feel a vent coming on...go ahead you have the floor

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:31 AM

Do some guys use other women to test their relationship?



What the hell? Why would they do that?

"Sorry, I was drunk"?

No I do not, if I'm in a relationship I am with that person...I do not cross the fence, I'm loyal have been since I was younger...although for some reason you become more desirable when you are with someone...do women smell that or something?

LightVoice's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:31 AM
I must need more coffee... cause I'm not understanding the question ohwell HOW does someone use someone else to *test* the relationship they are "in"?? *scratching head*



dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:32 AM
its just that he cant seem to talk to me without being involved with her. but all she does is make him miserable. she thrives on hurtin him.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:33 AM

its just that he cant seem to talk to me without being involved with her. but all she does is make him miserable. she thrives on hurtin him.


Woah...hold up here...was he originally with her, and NOW you are apart of the equation?

Peccy's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:33 AM
I agree with Fear

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:35 AM

its just that he cant seem to talk to me without being involved with her. but all she does is make him miserable. she thrives on hurtin him.


He can and does.

You allow yourself to be included and accept his behavior.

She does not make him as miserable as you think.


dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:35 AM


its just that he cant seem to talk to me without being involved with her. but all she does is make him miserable. she thrives on hurtin him.


Woah...hold up here...was he originally with her, and NOW you are apart of the equation?

well he didnt start talkin to her until he started talkin to me again. its a big f***ed up circle.

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:36 AM
more like a triangle
laugh

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:36 AM
I've seen women do this stuff, too. I wonder if these types want the drama to feed off of, like "build a romance" or something.

dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:36 AM


its just that he cant seem to talk to me without being involved with her. but all she does is make him miserable. she thrives on hurtin him.


He can and does.

You allow yourself to be included and accept his behavior.

She does not make him as miserable as you think.



apparently so

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:37 AM
I don't do love circles...*walks out*

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:38 AM

I've seen women do this stuff, too. I wonder if these types want the drama to feed off of, like "build a romance" or something.


Both men and women do this.

All the participants are responsible, not just the one getting over. jmo

dragonflywing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:40 AM
im havin his baby so its really hard to just block him out. but i am so tired of the games he is playin.

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:41 AM
Congratulations - there is no need to block him out of your childs life.

But why does that mean you have to allow him into your personal life?

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