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franshade's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:25 PM

Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


rofl only fools take dares rofl


RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:26 PM
i only care about what you think of me lilyflowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:27 PM

Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....

Mayhem_J's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:28 PM


Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


And some people care so much they wont even have a pic of themselves up.

franshade's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:29 PM


Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


wrong Lily, I truly could care less what anyone thinks about me, in order to make a true and just assumption one must get to know me. If anyone feels they can make a judgement call on me, go right ahead, will not affect me only those making incorrect assumptions on me. I rock! A picture is just that a picture, not a being.



izzie's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:29 PM
honestly...
im probibly an 8... but i hide it really well.. i pretend not to care.. but in fact i do..

Peccy's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:30 PM


Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


Honestly when you spend 2 years in a wheel chair and walker, you learn to dismiss other people's opinions quickly. I now walk with a cane but still don't give a dam about opinions.

no photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:30 PM


Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....
Actually have no flab and no turkey neck...and my concerns on how friends and family think of me are my attitude and kindness...not the way I look.

Mayhem_J's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:31 PM
Seems like a button was pushed.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:34 PM



Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....
Actually have no flab and no turkey neck...and my concerns on how friends and family think of me are my attitude and kindness...not the way I look.


I think you are missing the point here, you may not have any bad attributes in that way, but we all have things that we don't want others to think about us... Or things that we insist that they do think.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:36 PM



Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


Honestly when you spend 2 years in a wheel chair and walker, you learn to dismiss other people's opinions quickly. I now walk with a cane but still don't give a dam about opinions.


Peccy, I'm not going to get into it with you, but I want you to recall some of the discussions we've had about your "writing skills" and how fast you are to defend your "stature" in that department... If you really didn't care, you wouldn't fight so hard to make people believe your "intelligence" and what you've done with it in your life.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:37 PM
By the way I scale myself as a 5 sometimes a 4 and sometimes a 6.... It's a sliding scale....

no photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:37 PM




Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....
Actually have no flab and no turkey neck...and my concerns on how friends and family think of me are my attitude and kindness...not the way I look.


I think you are missing the point here, you may not have any bad attributes in that way, but we all have things that we don't want others to think about us... Or things that we insist that they do think.
which comes with attitude and kindnessbigsmile flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:37 PM




Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


Honestly when you spend 2 years in a wheel chair and walker, you learn to dismiss other people's opinions quickly. I now walk with a cane but still don't give a dam about opinions.


Peccy, I'm not going to get into it with you, but I want you to recall some of the discussions we've had about your "writing skills" and how fast you are to defend your "stature" in that department... If you really didn't care, you wouldn't fight so hard to make people believe your "intelligence" and what you've done with it in your life.
ok yes I get sensitive about my writing, you're correct on that one.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:38 PM





Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....
Actually have no flab and no turkey neck...and my concerns on how friends and family think of me are my attitude and kindness...not the way I look.


I think you are missing the point here, you may not have any bad attributes in that way, but we all have things that we don't want others to think about us... Or things that we insist that they do think.
which comes with attitude and kindnessbigsmile flowerforyou


I'm not sure how that answers the question but ok...

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:39 PM





Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


Honestly when you spend 2 years in a wheel chair and walker, you learn to dismiss other people's opinions quickly. I now walk with a cane but still don't give a dam about opinions.


Peccy, I'm not going to get into it with you, but I want you to recall some of the discussions we've had about your "writing skills" and how fast you are to defend your "stature" in that department... If you really didn't care, you wouldn't fight so hard to make people believe your "intelligence" and what you've done with it in your life.
ok yes I get sensitive about my writing, you're correct on that one.


right so you can't exactly say you don't care at all....

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:40 PM
I still lubs you all :heart: smooched flowerforyou flowers smitten

no photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:41 PM
I think at least caring to some extent what others think of us keeps us from being society's outcasts, out of trouble, allows us to have people who care about us and affords us the ability to care for others. That being said, along with that, while I weigh my actions with the thoughts of others in mind, what I think of myself is my guiding force.

Peccy's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:41 PM






Ok...heres a challenge. For those who say they dont care what others think of them.

I challenge you to put up a pic of yourself dressed in drag. If you wont do this, then obvioulsy you care.


That's exactly right, or put up a bad picture showing a turkey neck or one showing some flab around the waist.... EVERYONE cares more than they like to admit....


Honestly when you spend 2 years in a wheel chair and walker, you learn to dismiss other people's opinions quickly. I now walk with a cane but still don't give a dam about opinions.


Peccy, I'm not going to get into it with you, but I want you to recall some of the discussions we've had about your "writing skills" and how fast you are to defend your "stature" in that department... If you really didn't care, you wouldn't fight so hard to make people believe your "intelligence" and what you've done with it in your life.
ok yes I get sensitive about my writing, you're correct on that one.


right so you can't exactly say you don't care at all....
no I can't but not sure I can give it a number. Ok, a 4

crm1068's photo
Mon 09/08/08 12:42 PM
People like me they really like me.

:cry: