Topic: Ive noticed it too!
feralcatlady's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:59 PM

the only reason i see fit to do so in open forum instead of behind the scenes....

i treat this as close to real life as posible... i rarely use the edit button to corect some stupid thing that i say... i dont go behind someones back... if i have something to say.. i say it.. if that instance were to have happened in real life... i woulda called him on it in the middle of church.. a bar.. wherever.. it wasnt right to be 2 faced and hypocritical.. and i wanted to let him know that he wasnt as sly as he thought he was.. or as high and mighty.. as well as give the people who were going off about how right he was an insite to the other side of the coin...

i keep things real..
i do in the threads as i would do in real life..
and have gotten my azz scolded more than once... but deception is not right.. and hypocracy is deception..

mind you this is just one example.. i dont mean to disect it.. but most of the other examples are in the land of the lost threads with bill and jeni!
lol


Then I would have to say ok then izzie....we have different ways of doing it. And for me I don't know if it's going behind someones back more then to think it's solving the issue the easiest possible way. I think at least for me sometimes on open threads even though some deserve only makes their hackles get up more....but if given another way to look at it....with logic instead of heat of the moment....then they are forced to think in more logical terms. I actually think in this instance I im'd him.

There are ladies here whom I have the utmost respect just like with you because they don't take shi* and speak their minds. But I guess all those darn edequite classes I had to sit through rubbed off...

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:00 PM



and cuz yer purty.... :wink: laugh

Picture it.....
In a sexy pink robe....
struttin down the steps....
its dark you can't see..
you can only hear her voice ,
so sweet , she comes closer......
moves INDPRNC over.....
Lights come on...


*BUCK TOOF BIG MOMMA TONKA*
ME THINK YOU PURDY LADYindifferent devil love

*BUCK TOOF MOMMA TONKA*

Man Who LOVE CHEVY
:angry:
*ME HAD HER LAST NIGHT..... YOU TAKE BACK! ME NO WANT NO MORE!noway embarassed sick ill

INDPRNC-peederself!!!!!!



RUUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuNnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn



:banana:

hey, you know my ex ! drinks

cuppy59's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:01 PM




yes I would like to see.....the example.....



I think I need to get out of the Matchmaking Game more.....see what is happening in the threads. Because I don't see this. Well only in religion but it's always like that.
perfect example... brought to you by the op...

ill dredge it up tho i got in trouble for bringin it up the first time round..


first thread... read to the answer to the question
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148978

second thread..
notice the hypocritical nature..
but if you mention the hypocracy.. you get put on watch for it..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/149507




awww interesting that both threads included Rod....I have known this man forever.......and he is well how do I say this Rod......I have had to reprimand his behavior a few times...and once with ms. madam to threaten him with loosing my friendship and he did a whole apology thread. I think people need to get to know people on an individual basis and understand where their coming from. He doesn't think like you or I in that way...but that doesn't mean he is not entitled to his opinions either. I would then behind the scenes point this out and see what happens. But I get it izzie........and I can see where it would make people just feel uncomfortable or making fun...Is it right....no but can understand it.

And what would izzie think to solving this with someone like him? Or worse that I have come across.


You hit the nail on the head Deb... sometimes and i'm included.. we judge those we don't know by what they say... if we know them we seem to have a higher tolerance for their antics than those we don't know and i think most everyone is in this pool of personalities, even those that swear they are or will always be nice...


(((Joy))) Lets not forget to mention the fact that what goes on in the threads is not personal. We play, we have fun and we get crazy. No harm no fowl...Oh, one more thing. The grudge holders are the worst..laugh I mean, my god, some people need to loosen their belt buckles...

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:04 PM


the only reason i see fit to do so in open forum instead of behind the scenes....

i treat this as close to real life as posible... i rarely use the edit button to corect some stupid thing that i say... i dont go behind someones back... if i have something to say.. i say it.. if that instance were to have happened in real life... i woulda called him on it in the middle of church.. a bar.. wherever.. it wasnt right to be 2 faced and hypocritical.. and i wanted to let him know that he wasnt as sly as he thought he was.. or as high and mighty.. as well as give the people who were going off about how right he was an insite to the other side of the coin...

i keep things real..
i do in the threads as i would do in real life..
and have gotten my azz scolded more than once... but deception is not right.. and hypocracy is deception..

mind you this is just one example.. i dont mean to disect it.. but most of the other examples are in the land of the lost threads with bill and jeni!
lol


Then I would have to say ok then izzie....we have different ways of doing it. And for me I don't know if it's going behind someones back more then to think it's solving the issue the easiest possible way. I think at least for me sometimes on open threads even though some deserve only makes their hackles get up more....but if given another way to look at it....with logic instead of heat of the moment....then they are forced to think in more logical terms. I actually think in this instance I im'd him.

There are ladies here whom I have the utmost respect just like with you because they don't take shi* and speak their minds. But I guess all those darn edequite classes I had to sit through rubbed off...


deb, I dont think she meant you were going behind backs, she just means she prefers to face things head on...

izzie's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:10 PM



the only reason i see fit to do so in open forum instead of behind the scenes....

i treat this as close to real life as posible... i rarely use the edit button to corect some stupid thing that i say... i dont go behind someones back... if i have something to say.. i say it.. if that instance were to have happened in real life... i woulda called him on it in the middle of church.. a bar.. wherever.. it wasnt right to be 2 faced and hypocritical.. and i wanted to let him know that he wasnt as sly as he thought he was.. or as high and mighty.. as well as give the people who were going off about how right he was an insite to the other side of the coin...

i keep things real..
i do in the threads as i would do in real life..
and have gotten my azz scolded more than once... but deception is not right.. and hypocracy is deception..

mind you this is just one example.. i dont mean to disect it.. but most of the other examples are in the land of the lost threads with bill and jeni!
lol


Then I would have to say ok then izzie....we have different ways of doing it. And for me I don't know if it's going behind someones back more then to think it's solving the issue the easiest possible way. I think at least for me sometimes on open threads even though some deserve only makes their hackles get up more....but if given another way to look at it....with logic instead of heat of the moment....then they are forced to think in more logical terms. I actually think in this instance I im'd him.

There are ladies here whom I have the utmost respect just like with you because they don't take shi* and speak their minds. But I guess all those darn edequite classes I had to sit through rubbed off...


deb, I dont think she meant you were going behind backs, she just means she prefers to face things head on...
yep... its just my way... i ether bottle or burst.. lol... dont beleve me? ask brad he gets the brunt end of it....
and i grew up in the badlands of montana.. edequite is a big word..lol.. (ok im not that bad.. but i dont bite my tongue ether)
its just my way..
yours works too.. better in some instances.. most probibly.. and keeps you outa trouble... mine works for me..
flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers
you know i love ya sweet lady!:heart:

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:12 PM



the only reason i see fit to do so in open forum instead of behind the scenes....

i treat this as close to real life as posible... i rarely use the edit button to corect some stupid thing that i say... i dont go behind someones back... if i have something to say.. i say it.. if that instance were to have happened in real life... i woulda called him on it in the middle of church.. a bar.. wherever.. it wasnt right to be 2 faced and hypocritical.. and i wanted to let him know that he wasnt as sly as he thought he was.. or as high and mighty.. as well as give the people who were going off about how right he was an insite to the other side of the coin...

i keep things real..
i do in the threads as i would do in real life..
and have gotten my azz scolded more than once... but deception is not right.. and hypocracy is deception..

mind you this is just one example.. i dont mean to disect it.. but most of the other examples are in the land of the lost threads with bill and jeni!
lol


Then I would have to say ok then izzie....we have different ways of doing it. And for me I don't know if it's going behind someones back more then to think it's solving the issue the easiest possible way. I think at least for me sometimes on open threads even though some deserve only makes their hackles get up more....but if given another way to look at it....with logic instead of heat of the moment....then they are forced to think in more logical terms. I actually think in this instance I im'd him.

There are ladies here whom I have the utmost respect just like with you because they don't take shi* and speak their minds. But I guess all those darn edequite classes I had to sit through rubbed off...


deb, I dont think she meant you were going behind backs, she just means she prefers to face things head on...


I did get that......but after I wrote...gigglesnort.....


JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:16 PM
Edited by JusWannaSayHi on Fri 09/05/08 11:18 PM





yes I would like to see.....the example.....



I think I need to get out of the Matchmaking Game more.....see what is happening in the threads. Because I don't see this. Well only in religion but it's always like that.
perfect example... brought to you by the op...

ill dredge it up tho i got in trouble for bringin it up the first time round..


first thread... read to the answer to the question
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148978

second thread..
notice the hypocritical nature..
but if you mention the hypocracy.. you get put on watch for it..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/149507




awww interesting that both threads included Rod....I have known this man forever.......and he is well how do I say this Rod......I have had to reprimand his behavior a few times...and once with ms. madam to threaten him with loosing my friendship and he did a whole apology thread. I think people need to get to know people on an individual basis and understand where their coming from. He doesn't think like you or I in that way...but that doesn't mean he is not entitled to his opinions either. I would then behind the scenes point this out and see what happens. But I get it izzie........and I can see where it would make people just feel uncomfortable or making fun...Is it right....no but can understand it.

And what would izzie think to solving this with someone like him? Or worse that I have come across.


You hit the nail on the head Deb... sometimes and i'm included.. we judge those we don't know by what they say... if we know them we seem to have a higher tolerance for their antics than those we don't know and i think most everyone is in this pool of personalities, even those that swear they are or will always be nice...


(((Joy))) Lets not forget to mention the fact that what goes on in the threads is not personal. We play, we have fun and we get crazy. No harm no fowl...Oh, one more thing. The grudge holders are the worst..laugh I mean, my god, some people need to loosen their belt buckles...
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OK I THOUGHT WE WERE SUPPOSE TOI BE HAVIN FUN!!
WTH???????


CEPT WHEN YA BASH PEOPLE:angry:

cuppy59's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:21 PM
Hi there...Juswannasayhi...How are ya girl?:wink:


IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:23 PM





yes I would like to see.....the example.....



I think I need to get out of the Matchmaking Game more.....see what is happening in the threads. Because I don't see this. Well only in religion but it's always like that.
perfect example... brought to you by the op...

ill dredge it up tho i got in trouble for bringin it up the first time round..


first thread... read to the answer to the question
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148978

second thread..
notice the hypocritical nature..
but if you mention the hypocracy.. you get put on watch for it..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/149507




awww interesting that both threads included Rod....I have known this man forever.......and he is well how do I say this Rod......I have had to reprimand his behavior a few times...and once with ms. madam to threaten him with loosing my friendship and he did a whole apology thread. I think people need to get to know people on an individual basis and understand where their coming from. He doesn't think like you or I in that way...but that doesn't mean he is not entitled to his opinions either. I would then behind the scenes point this out and see what happens. But I get it izzie........and I can see where it would make people just feel uncomfortable or making fun...Is it right....no but can understand it.

And what would izzie think to solving this with someone like him? Or worse that I have come across.


You hit the nail on the head Deb... sometimes and i'm included.. we judge those we don't know by what they say... if we know them we seem to have a higher tolerance for their antics than those we don't know and i think most everyone is in this pool of personalities, even those that swear they are or will always be nice...


(((Joy))) Lets not forget to mention the fact that what goes on in the threads is not personal. We play, we have fun and we get crazy. No harm no fowl...Oh, one more thing. The grudge holders are the worst..laugh I mean, my god, some people need to loosen their belt buckles...


Thank you Cuppy...

No bashing Jus, but well we sorta used to get out of hand not horribly but well you had to have been there with Bill and Jen and some fake profiles....

Mr_Brightside777's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:24 PM

I wanna have fun like that!
I never came here expecting love.... although i may have a love bug bite... not too sure maybe maybe not
Ya know?


And who might THAT be, huh?? biggrin



(yup... she liiiiiikes me!) :angel:

rofl

cuppy59's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:26 PM






yes I would like to see.....the example.....



I think I need to get out of the Matchmaking Game more.....see what is happening in the threads. Because I don't see this. Well only in religion but it's always like that.
perfect example... brought to you by the op...

ill dredge it up tho i got in trouble for bringin it up the first time round..


first thread... read to the answer to the question
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/148978

second thread..
notice the hypocritical nature..
but if you mention the hypocracy.. you get put on watch for it..

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/149507




awww interesting that both threads included Rod....I have known this man forever.......and he is well how do I say this Rod......I have had to reprimand his behavior a few times...and once with ms. madam to threaten him with loosing my friendship and he did a whole apology thread. I think people need to get to know people on an individual basis and understand where their coming from. He doesn't think like you or I in that way...but that doesn't mean he is not entitled to his opinions either. I would then behind the scenes point this out and see what happens. But I get it izzie........and I can see where it would make people just feel uncomfortable or making fun...Is it right....no but can understand it.

And what would izzie think to solving this with someone like him? Or worse that I have come across.


You hit the nail on the head Deb... sometimes and i'm included.. we judge those we don't know by what they say... if we know them we seem to have a higher tolerance for their antics than those we don't know and i think most everyone is in this pool of personalities, even those that swear they are or will always be nice...


(((Joy))) Lets not forget to mention the fact that what goes on in the threads is not personal. We play, we have fun and we get crazy. No harm no fowl...Oh, one more thing. The grudge holders are the worst..laugh I mean, my god, some people need to loosen their belt buckles...


Thank you Cuppy...

No bashing Jus, but well we sorta used to get out of hand not horribly but well you had to have been there with Bill and Jen and some fake profiles....


Exactly...It was not good at all...

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:29 PM
oh it wasn't bad Cuppy, loads of laughs.. I used to not sleep I was laughing so hard and didnt want to miss anything.. remember the mirror thread? kick in the butt fun... remember our alien probing evening? that's where we all came together, that was hilarious stuff...

cuppy59's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:33 PM

oh it wasn't bad Cuppy, loads of laughs.. I used to not sleep I was laughing so hard and didnt want to miss anything.. remember the mirror thread? kick in the butt fun... remember our alien probing evening? that's where we all came together, that was hilarious stuff...


I still have nightmares about the Mirror run thread...The crap we came up with....I probed so many guys, they will never be the same....omg....laugh

You forgot about the guy that kept coming in there and trashing and Madamx had to put him in his place...She was so good...laugh

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:35 PM


I wanna have fun like that!
I never came here expecting love.... although i may have a love bug bite... not too sure maybe maybe not
Ya know?


And who might THAT be, huh?? biggrin



(yup... she liiiiiikes me!) :angel:

rofl




CHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitt!!


PPHTTT...whoa
Wut EVER!!indifferent




lmao

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:35 PM
yes, i remember mirrior run and the alein room , i never did get my pant's back ! :laughing:

Dan99's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:36 PM
People dont like change, and thats what a lot of you have seen here. At the end of the day though you will all have to get used to it.

Im new here so dont know what it was like before or understand the differences, but i gather there has been a merger of sites and there are a whole load of new faces. It will always take a little time for things to settle, so people should be patient. But things will never get back to exactly what you were used to.

Personally though i have not seen a great deal of nastiness or trouble here, so i dont know what is really being complained about. I have seen and have been part of a lot of banter with people, but its all been in fun even if some of it seems mean. If this is the meanness people are talking about then thicker skins will need to be grown.


IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:36 PM


oh it wasn't bad Cuppy, loads of laughs.. I used to not sleep I was laughing so hard and didnt want to miss anything.. remember the mirror thread? kick in the butt fun... remember our alien probing evening? that's where we all came together, that was hilarious stuff...


I still have nightmares about the Mirror run thread...The crap we came up with....I probed so many guys, they will never be the same....omg....laugh

You forgot about the guy that kept coming in there and trashing and Madamx had to put him in his place...She was so good...laugh



There were a few of those.. I was just thinking about Brian and Beach and Mirror, tears used to stream down my face I laughed so hard at a our shenanigans...

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:38 PM

People dont like change, and thats what a lot of you have seen here. At the end of the day though you will all have to get used to it.

Im new here so dont know what it was like before or understand the differences, but i gather there has been a merger of sites and there are a whole load of new faces. It will always take a little time for things to settle, so people should be patient. But things will never get back to exactly what you were used to.

Personally though i have not seen a great deal of nastiness or trouble here, so i dont know what is really being complained about. I have seen and have been part of a lot of banter with people, but its all been in fun even if some of it seems mean. If this is the meanness people are talking about then thicker skins will need to be grown.








Awwwe..... WELCOME ONCE AGAIN TO THE GREATEST FREAK SHOW ON EARTH!
LMAO!
laugh

Mr_Brightside777's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:42 PM
Edited by Mr_Brightside777 on Fri 09/05/08 11:43 PM
HA! Dan IS the biggest freak show on earth... tongue2

cuppy59's photo
Fri 09/05/08 11:43 PM

yes, i remember mirrior run and the alein room , i never did get my pant's back ! :laughing:


You had to put in a formal request and gone through the red tape that was stuck to your butt...You liked the fact that they were hanging from the antennae of madames bus....