Topic: Ive noticed it too!
IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:34 PM
I'm still trying to figure out where all the meanies are... I haven't really seen any.. Maybe I'm not in all the forums enough... I know it's changed but what's changed is the chop busting, we used to do a lot of it and now we're not allowed... Madam, you know of what I speak... Fun is what you make it, people can be jerks, nice, fun, chop busters, morons, idiots, ignorant, needy, insecure, attention seekers, many things, but they are all different... It seems the mean one's are the one's that don't care for hearing constant whining and say something but the whiners are to be pitied and coddled...

Gams's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:35 PM

It is a combination of the longest existing members leaving with jsh and the handful of people that get a kick out of bashing others and being downright mean...I posted my oath the other night and I stand by it...I just think it's time that those of us that love this site work our butts off to put it back the way it was and stand up for ourselves...in a nice way of course....best way to do that is ignore the mean comments and just don't respond...to it....misery loves company and we need to stop feeding it


AMEN!!!! Yeah, what she said :)

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:40 PM
i miss you too deb!!! xoxox

FAK---- ohhhhhhhhhh the good old days where midget porn was the hype! lol

indn....totally agree with ya there. busting chops was a fav of mine hahaha....it was all in fun though (i think) haha

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:42 PM

i miss you too deb!!! xoxox

FAK---- ohhhhhhhhhh the good old days where midget porn was the hype! lol

indn....totally agree with ya there. busting chops was a fav of mine hahaha....it was all in fun though (i think) haha


it was we were never mean unless someone was just stupid and rude... what's changed is we can't speak our mind and react as we normally would...

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:43 PM
You know, I will be a member here exactly 4 months tomorrow. And I remember when I first joined that I was so thankful that I finally found a site that was fun, exciting, nonjudgmental, and an all around fun place to be. But it just seems that it's not like that anymore. Yeah it's still fun, but not like it was when I first joined. Any more now you have to watch what you say for fear of either getting bashed for what you said, getting your opinion stomped on by someone who disagrees with you, or even making a serious thread and having some a$$hole come in and either make some snide or rude remark or throw it so way off topic to the point that you were better off just not posting the thread at all. It gets pretty bad when you have to title your thread "Serious replies please" in hopes that you'll be taken seriously.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:45 PM

You know, I will be a member here exactly 4 months tomorrow. And I remember when I first joined that I was so thankful that I finally found a site that was fun, exciting, nonjudgmental, and an all around fun place to be. But it just seems that it's not like that anymore. Yeah it's still fun, but not like it was when I first joined. Any more now you have to watch what you say for fear of either getting bashed for what you said, getting your opinion stomped on by someone who disagrees with you, or even making a serious thread and having some a$$hole come in and either make some snide or rude remark or throw it so way off topic to the point that you were better off just not posting the thread at all. It gets pretty bad when you have to title your thread "Serious replies please" in hopes that you'll be taken seriously.



People have a habit of accidentally getting threads off topic, it's not right but most don't mean to, they just start talking... As for the azzholes, some are truly that and others I think are trying to be funny and lighten the mood, but others have an opinion and it may not be what the OP wants to hear but it's that persons opinion and they should be allowed to state it...

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Fri 09/05/08 09:46 PM

You know, I will be a member here exactly 4 months tomorrow. And I remember when I first joined that I was so thankful that I finally found a site that was fun, exciting, nonjudgmental, and an all around fun place to be. But it just seems that it's not like that anymore. Yeah it's still fun, but not like it was when I first joined. Any more now you have to watch what you say for fear of either getting bashed for what you said, getting your opinion stomped on by someone who disagrees with you, or even making a serious thread and having some a$$hole come in and either make some snide or rude remark or throw it so way off topic to the point that you were better off just not posting the thread at all. It gets pretty bad when you have to title your thread "Serious replies please" in hopes that you'll be taken seriously.
flowers flowers flowers

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/05/08 09:55 PM


i miss you too deb!!! xoxox

FAK---- ohhhhhhhhhh the good old days where midget porn was the hype! lol

indn....totally agree with ya there. busting chops was a fav of mine hahaha....it was all in fun though (i think) haha


it was we were never mean unless someone was just stupid and rude... what's changed is we can't speak our mind and react as we normally would...


true true!! but i still cant help but tellin it like it is and speaking my mind...its part of my charm bigsmile

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:00 PM
i miss midget porn too !tears

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:03 PM

i miss midget porn too !tears


midgets...covered in mustard....ohhhhhhhhhhh FAK........im getting all sentimental here sad

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:04 PM
frown IT CHANGED WHEN I CAME frown ...... HUH...:cry:

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:04 PM


You know, I will be a member here exactly 4 months tomorrow. And I remember when I first joined that I was so thankful that I finally found a site that was fun, exciting, nonjudgmental, and an all around fun place to be. But it just seems that it's not like that anymore. Yeah it's still fun, but not like it was when I first joined. Any more now you have to watch what you say for fear of either getting bashed for what you said, getting your opinion stomped on by someone who disagrees with you, or even making a serious thread and having some a$$hole come in and either make some snide or rude remark or throw it so way off topic to the point that you were better off just not posting the thread at all. It gets pretty bad when you have to title your thread "Serious replies please" in hopes that you'll be taken seriously.



People have a habit of accidentally getting threads off topic, it's not right but most don't mean to, they just start talking... As for the azzholes, some are truly that and others I think are trying to be funny and lighten the mood, but others have an opinion and it may not be what the OP wants to hear but it's that persons opinion and they should be allowed to state it...


I have no problems with people stating their opinions. It's when they start bashing me or others about our opinion as if they are trying to say, "I am right and you are wrong and I'm gonna let you know just how wrong you are and how right I am!" It's almost as if some people have lost respect for other people's right to their opinion. If people disagree with another's opinion, that's fine. But don't rake a person over the coals just because they don't see things the way you do.

And as for people getting off topic, most people when doing it, recognize it and some even go as far as to apologize to the OP, but there are others that intentionally do it, just because they choose to. And I get the part about people just trying to "lighten the mood" and those people after making a comment like that will typically say something like J/K or "but seriously" to let the OP know that they really are taking their thread seriously and not making a joke of it.

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:05 PM

frown IT CHANGED WHEN I CAME frown ...... HUH...:cry:
nah, it has been coming !

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:05 PM

frown IT CHANGED WHEN I CAME frown ...... HUH...:cry:


omg babe...some nights it was so crazy and fun that i couldnt go to bed i was afraid id miss something...it was histerical!!!

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:06 PM

i miss midget porn too !tears



LMAO CHEVY .... you are just nuts!

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:06 PM
Why did they take your midget porn away? Did the midgets get mad? Were you degrading to the midgets? Did the midgets go off and get married?

what do people have against midgets? I love them and I think they have a right to porn as anyone else.

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:07 PM
there was night's when i never went to bed !
we was having fun ! drinks

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:08 PM


frown IT CHANGED WHEN I CAME frown ...... HUH...:cry:


omg babe...some nights it was so crazy and fun that i couldnt go to bed i was afraid id miss something...it was histerical!!!


I wanna have fun like that!
I never came here expecting love.... although i may have a love bug bite... not too sure maybe maybe not , but any way , i only came to have fun and find friends outside of this lil town , and well so far I have had SOME fun but I wanna pee myself with laughter LMAO!

Ya know?

SkaryKoolAide's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:08 PM
hahaha....speakin of midget porn....a bar around my area got fined because they had midget wrestling and someone called the cops cause one of their tops fell off....i read that in my local paperrofl oops

izzie's photo
Fri 09/05/08 10:08 PM
i miss bill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and jenni!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and dorkey2sporkey and the day he posted his alter ego justned and messed up when he was talking to himself....


i even miss mephastophalies!!


yes this place has changed... usedto be you could say whats on your mind.. but now. if you dont say what someone wants to hear they report you for being "mean" you arent allowed an opinon unless it is the one that the majority wants to hear....
if you call someone out on something then you get scolded for it by the "powers that be" cuz you hurt someones feelings...

want an example??
ive got a doozie of an example!?