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Ya, know.. when is someone going to finally invent an attractive way to beg for a relationship? Why can't a guy just ask???? But if ya do come up w/ an attractive way to beg....let me know....I have someone in mind.....and don't know how to do it. (((((torey))))) Good afternoon Storm!!!! Have a nice afternoon all you fine peeps!!! |
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Ya, know.. when is someone going to finally invent an attractive way to beg for a relationship? Why can't a guy just ask???? But if ya do come up w/ an attractive way to beg....let me know....I have someone in mind.....and don't know how to do it. (((((torey))))) Good afternoon Storm!!!! Have a nice afternoon all you fine peeps!!! Have fun in the park, etc torey! |
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Im going swimming...later everyone
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So, somebody had my civic out for a test run.
The sales kid is going to call me later to let me know what's going on with it. |
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So, somebody had my civic out for a test run. The sales kid is going to call me later to let me know what's going on with it. |
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So, somebody had my civic out for a test run. The sales kid is going to call me later to let me know what's going on with it. |
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So, somebody had my civic out for a test run. The sales kid is going to call me later to let me know what's going on with it. |
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Here's the problem.. trying to get a date or get a job or convince someone to buy something from you... all those things tend to cause us to act differently: We are trying to impress somebody. Everything we say and do is internally filtered to try to present the best image/thoughts about us.
The problem is, that's not who you really are. It's easier to meet new people at random when you really could care less. That's when you are more likely to speak your mind and say how you really feel and talk how you usually talk.. because you really don't care if someone likes you or not. The cool thing is, when you make friends like that, it means they accept you for just being you, and those are the best friendships. Don't you want the same for your relationships? This is why they guys who act like a$$holes always seem to have women all over them. It's not because all of the women are stupid (they might be being naive and ignoring the warning signs, but not usually stupid), it's because those guys seem more real to them. They don't feel like they are being hit on, and the guy seems more natural and more honest, although it's usually more likely that the guy is just more comfortable with lying than most of us. So, my suggestion? Hang out with some women that you are not interested in having an intimate relationship with. It's about making good friends, not finding a lover. This is good for several reasons.. 1 - You have something to do with your time so you aren't just sitting around crying in your beer all the time, 2 - you are working on your social skills. Social skills are very attractive to women, generally speaking, 3 - you'll find that friendship is a requirement of having a good relationship.. you should love yourself and have the love and respect of friends before you go out and try to find a woman to love, and finally 4 - Friends have other friends and they meet other people.. good friends will become great talent scouts looking for the perfect woman for you, because they can see things that you can't -- about yourself and about potential women for you.. JMO.. |
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So, somebody had my civic out for a test run. The sales kid is going to call me later to let me know what's going on with it. I'm pretty good. You? |
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26/MN/ looking for someone between 22-40
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Afternoon all!
jason, if you haven't already read the rules on page 1....welcome to the game. hey ash! hi ya marine! hi selfcenteredpervert |
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hey tanyaann
how is everyone? |
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hey tanyaann how is everyone? I sent you an email to see how you were doing a couple weeks back... but I think it got lost in the jsh/m2 blackhole. how are you doing? still dating that same person from like forever ago? |
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hey tanyaann how is everyone? I sent you an email to see how you were doing a couple weeks back... but I think it got lost in the jsh/m2 blackhole. how are you doing? still dating that same person from like forever ago? oh no....i never got it. Not dating him any more. He ended it 3 weeks ago. out of the blue. I was with him one day then he phones and says his feelins have changed and doesn't want to date any more (stay friends). any way hows ur life.xx |
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well I am heading outside for a little bit... kido is bugging me to go play outside.
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hey tanyaann how is everyone? I sent you an email to see how you were doing a couple weeks back... but I think it got lost in the jsh/m2 blackhole. how are you doing? still dating that same person from like forever ago? oh no....i never got it. Not dating him any more. He ended it 3 weeks ago. out of the blue. I was with him one day then he phones and says his feelins have changed and doesn't want to date any more (stay friends). any way hows ur life.xx long story in the love area that I still am not saying much about. school is going well. I will be extremely busy here soon with work, school, intership and all that stuff. just live life every day. but I got to get going.... good to hear from you again! missed ya! kiss kiss! we will definately catch up soon! |
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CURLERS
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thanks chick.
enjoy the wind on ur face and the birds in the sky. xx |
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Peeks in a bit hugs an kisses everyone
omg i just talked to Tanya for the first time she is such a sweetie thanks for the girl chat ya the best. momma deb love ya always too. merle when u can give me a buzz. ok later all gonna go relax see u all soon |
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