being on the net, but it seems to hit more home today then it has in the past.

This is just my opinion and just a thought so don't take this to serious

But being on this site or any site for the matter as long as i have. If your looking for somone that knows what they want or looking for It's usually the older generation. As the age drops it's more about life is a party and not so serious on actually looking for a relationship. It becomes a game. What can i get out of this person and then drop them. Not saying all Men/Women are like this, but it does get harder to find somone as time goes on. The older you get It seems men are looking for the younger. When it comes down to women though, it can go either way. So As you get older you get tired of the game so you don't try so hard and you relized you were never really getting anyware in the first place

So why do we at one point in are life try so hard for somthing that is not there? When we get older we seem to relax and let things go and things seem to fall in place. Does anyone even know what i'm talking about, If not ask questions

We learn from our experiences...our failures...hopefully anyhow

wb mr train

what he said

Yeah we do. Some longer then others.

I was thinking if today was more of the way people thought back in the old days, how many of us would be with somone right now. Was there more cummitment, understanding, love, comunitcation. or was it taught that if your with somone your suppose to stay with them ext ext. Because today, there is no sense of value or respectr ext etc.

I think dating does get harder as you get older, for a number of reasons. Everyone has their own issues and insecurities from past relationships. It is also harder to meet new people who are interesting and single. I'm not sure it really has to do with a shift in generations. At least from my point of view as someone who is younger. I still value respect, faithfulness, and committment. I also happen to be pretty mature for my age, and I'm dating someone older.

Cause as we get older we realize that things are not worth fighting for anymore. If it happens it happens if not then so be it. I do find that a lot of the guys my age are looking for younger trimmer women ohh well if that is what makes them happy so be it. I'm not going to cry in my milk or loose sleep over it. I will be me regardless and one day someone will see the real me for who I'm inside.

Until then I will sit back relax and learn to enjoy life as it should be.

I really don't care how long it takes !! as long it is right choice and i did not rush it ...so I think some people are just be patient and not rushing these days ...the old fashioned days divorce and sleeping out of wed lock was taboo !

if I'm understanding you correctly Shadow !!

Maybe...in the old days...it was very ugly to get divorced...it was a sin...so says the cathalic church I think...religion I think, had alot to do with people sticking together...also...people now adays are very self absorbed

Today relationships are too disposable. Nobody wants to work at the relationship anymore..it isn't always filled with good times, they have their bad too.. communication, respect and honesty is key.

I agree with what everyone said. The taboo part is what it was like in the old days. In some countries it is still like that. But in the US. It's free for all. Do what you want as long as your willing to pay the price.