Topic: Has being on dating sites helped you find love?
t22learner's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:23 PM
Love? No.

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:25 PM
SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT MAKING A MATCH??

what kind of things do you write on your first message?

Ladies do you even initiate contact or more wait till you are written to?

papersmile's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:33 PM

SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT MAKING A MATCH??

what kind of things do you write on your first message?

Ladies do you even initiate contact or more wait till you are written to?


i almost always write to people first. but only if there's something interesting they've posted that i read, and the email would probably be related to that.

also, yes, i found my love on a dating site. and yes, it was me who wrote first. i even recall almost the exact words i wrote when i did.

no photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:34 PM
Edited by quiet_2008 on Mon 09/01/08 05:34 PM
I found her ^^






papersmile's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:37 PM
haha, i think i did the finding; you just replied

no photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:37 PM
Rumor has it that some of these "People" on here aren't real....!!surprised

Their "Photo's" are really Professional Models..!!shocked

no photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:38 PM

haha, i think i did the finding; you just replied


well... still...

it was part of my secret plan

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:40 PM

Rumor has it that some of these "People" on here aren't real....!!surprised

Their "Photo's" are really Professional Models..!!shocked


yeah if i owned a dating site i would do that. It would at least get people to sign up

papersmile's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:43 PM
Edited by papersmile on Mon 09/01/08 05:43 PM

Rumor has it that some of these "People" on here aren't real....!!surprised

Their "Photo's" are really Professional Models..!!shocked

i REALLY hope you are talking about me, cause that is just TOO funny, lol, and makes me feel as though my ego is being stroked.



no photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:52 PM


Rumor has it that some of these "People" on here aren't real....!!surprised

Their "Photo's" are really Professional Models..!!shocked

i REALLY hope you are talking about me, cause that is just TOO funny, lol, and makes me feel as though my ego is being stroked.





haha she looks BETTER than her photos in real life

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Mon 09/01/08 05:57 PM


Rumor has it that some of these "People" on here aren't real....!!surprised

Their "Photo's" are really Professional Models..!!shocked

i REALLY hope you are talking about me, cause that is just TOO funny, lol, and makes me feel as though my ego is being stroked.





that is a hot picture you got

tanyaann's photo
Mon 09/01/08 07:17 PM

SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT MAKING A MATCH??

what kind of things do you write on your first message?

Ladies do you even initiate contact or more wait till you are written to?


I was matched by feralcatlady in the matchmaking game... she has done a few successful matches... but like anything it takes time.

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Mon 09/01/08 07:20 PM


SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT MAKING A MATCH??

what kind of things do you write on your first message?

Ladies do you even initiate contact or more wait till you are written to?


I was matched by feralcatlady in the matchmaking game... she has done a few successful matches... but like anything it takes time.


what is feralcatlady in the matchmaking game?

tanyaann's photo
Mon 09/01/08 07:38 PM



SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT MAKING A MATCH??

what kind of things do you write on your first message?

Ladies do you even initiate contact or more wait till you are written to?


I was matched by feralcatlady in the matchmaking game... she has done a few successful matches... but like anything it takes time.


what is feralcatlady in the matchmaking game?


if you look in the relationship advice forum... there is a thread called the matchmaking game.... feralcatlady started the thread... if you decide to play.... read the rules they are usually on page one..... let her know... hang out in there and post... and eventually she will do matches... you email all that you are matched with and see if anything happens.

eileena9's photo
Mon 09/01/08 08:03 PM
My fiance and I met here on JustSayHi last year. We were hanging out in the Games threads and just kept asking each other questions to get to know more about each others likes and dislikes, just getting to know each other as friends.

He asked one question that I wouldn't answer on the thread and told him if he wanted to know the answer, he would have to email me. Sparks flew from the minute we spoke in emails and we have been together ever since.

Thank you to JustSayHi.......feels weird that it won't be called that after tonight.......

:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

WhispersandWinks's photo
Tue 09/02/08 06:20 AM
love love love love Not only did I meet, but MARRIED the love of my life here on the former JSH! Will be celebrating our 1st wedding anniversary Nov 3rd! Man, how time flies!

He sent me a little St. Patrick's Day wish on March 16, we met two weeks later, and married....as I said....in Nov!

He is precious!!!

So, don't give up, and as has been mentioned....you meet great friends here. Who knows, you may even marry your best friend.

Blessings your way......

Whispersflowers

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Tue 09/02/08 04:08 PM

love love love love Not only did I meet, but MARRIED the love of my life here on the former JSH! Will be celebrating our 1st wedding anniversary Nov 3rd! Man, how time flies!

He sent me a little St. Patrick's Day wish on March 16, we met two weeks later, and married....as I said....in Nov!

He is precious!!!

So, don't give up, and as has been mentioned....you meet great friends here. Who knows, you may even marry your best friend.

Blessings your way......

Whispersflowers



thats very inspireing. im very happy that you found someone. love is a special thingk. i really believe that


i guess my question is how many you ng women from southern california hang out in these boards?

i dont see many

no photo
Tue 09/02/08 04:10 PM

Has being on dating sites helped you find love?


It has helped me realize that the kind of person I'm looking for doesn't use dating sites....

....and knowing is better than not knowing....

I have met 9 people from dating sites, and 8 of them were absolute disasters....and sometimes, that's the best way to learn....

ImLookingForU2's photo
Tue 09/02/08 04:13 PM
im meetting her tonight for the first time. so dont know how it will go yet:banana:

joshyfox's photo
Tue 09/02/08 04:17 PM
I've gotten one "date" out of this site, so I know it's possible.

It's just kinda unlikely, at least right now.