I have been doing some thinking about my past relationships. And I realized that with each and every one of them I got bored of the person I was with. It is like I have not met a guy that can keep me interested for more then a couple weeks. I have tried to ride it out to see if things get better and I get over the feeling, but in the end I just end up trying to avoid them, and thinking of reasons to not want to see him. Which yes, I do understand what is not fair to the person that I am with. It just seems to always happen that way.

Does anybody else ever get bored easily in a relationship? Or am I just messed up?

nah, your normal it the rest of us that are screwed up !

maybe you should of rode it out longer, no pun intended :D

You're messed up!!






Seriously, I'm thinking you still have yet to meet the one that can "hold" your interest.

WHOOO HOOO! I like this answer!

I am beginning to wonder if that is possible.

Youre not bored. Youre BORING. Fertile minds never get bored. Unless they lack discipline of course.

Nope, you're perfectly fine.

My friend does the exact same thing. She can go through five guys in a month...maybe more.

What both of you do isn't abnormal at all. You're what I like to call "pimps" ^.^

What she does though, is she tells them openly that she doesn't want to talk to them period! And basically severs all ties with them.

So I say, "Keep on doin what you're doin".

So you are calling ME boring when it is MEN that make me bored? Hmm maybe it is the other way around here.

Yes.. I'm stick and tired of being in a relationship by my self.

It happens *shrug*

I would completely agree with that if we were not talking about relationships. If you find yourself being bored by yourself, then the above could hold logic, but in terms of relating to someone quite apart from yourself, I think that being bored with someone else is entirely possible. Some could argue that you could just use more creativity and be more proactive to maintain a modicum of interest, however, if the other person has no interest in doing the same, then you will inevitably sink into a state of boredom with that individual. The counter to that, is maybe you are not all that interesting yourself, which causes the other person to become bored, and thus make you bored in turn, although the same could be said of that individual as well and then we are just talking in circles. My point being is that it is up to you to make things interesting, and if the person you're with would be counter-productive to that goal, then find a new person, or try to motivate them to become interesting.