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Topic: So what is it about me...
phirequest Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 197	Sat 08/30/08 06:33 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt. OOOHHHHHH shut up and kiss me

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Sat 08/30/08 06:34 PM
mary, DONT Call him!!!! trust me here... just goin thru this VERY same thing...dude played me, cuz I let him! I ignored all the red flags, and now that I found out, he wont return my call, email or texts. make up any kind of story you want about what you did tonight!! let him wonder!!!

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:34 PM
I feel like calling him, but then I give him the upper hand...maybe he should wonder what I'm doing tonight? now how does that feel to say that ? take back your power !!!!!!!!

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Sat 08/30/08 06:35 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me... reality sucks!!

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:35 PM
mary, DONT Call him!!!! trust me here... just goin thru this VERY same thing...dude played me, cuz I let him! I ignored all the red flags, and now that I found out, he wont return my call, email or texts. make up any kind of story you want about what you did tonight!! let him wonder!!! Oh God thank you! I won't!

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:36 PM
I feel like calling him, but then I give him the upper hand...maybe he should wonder what I'm doing tonight? now how does that feel to say that ? take back your power !!!!!!!! I think I will live, but its sooo hard...what do I say when he does call??

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:37 PM
sit on `em if you have to,.. so how do you feel ? now

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/30/08 06:39 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt. So I should NOT call...God break my fingers if I even start to dial... definitely don't call instead read the book "He's Just NOT that Into you"

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:43 PM
I feel like calling him, but then I give him the upper hand...maybe he should wonder what I'm doing tonight? now how does that feel to say that ? take back your power !!!!!!!! I think I will live, but its sooo hard...what do I say when he does call?? yes,..sometimes love has to be tough ! BUT your tougher !!!!! you care about yourself enought to not be worrying about some silly little phone call,..especially when you got that really good book you`ve been meanin to read for sometime now,.. just really splurge tonight on yourself and you will be amazed at what will come out of your mouth tomorrow,..( or tonight ) dependin when the call comes

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:46 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me... that`s jumping to conclusions and that`s what driving that little crazy voice inside you -- the truth of where he is tonight,..might be the farthest thing from what your thinkin --

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/30/08 06:47 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me... that`s jumping to conclusions and that`s what driving that little crazy voice inside you -- the truth of where he is tonight,..might be the farthest thing from what your thinkin -- true be that ..

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/30/08 06:48 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt. OOOHHHHHH shut up and kiss me

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:49 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me... that`s jumping to conclusions and that`s what driving that little crazy voice inside you -- the truth of where he is tonight,..might be the farthest thing from what your thinkin -- that`s what drives the emotional insanity bus over the edge along with the relationship as well,.. is that insecure little voice -- DON~T GIVE IT POWER,..don`t believe it,..don`t listen to it,..

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 08/30/08 06:51 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome. Oh God, help me what do I do? He always tell me to call him and he always call me alot, however its Saturday night and he did'nt call. My only night without my son. Why do guys say they love you and then do this stuff? I think guys just don't think to much. Sometimes you just goit to be blunt. Call him up and say "hey, you want this or not!" "Make up your damn mind cos I don't idle well"...just lay it on the line and know that whatever the outcome is the best....

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 08/30/08 06:51 PM
My question is, is this a new relationship? My new rule is if there are no plans made by wed. for the weekend I make plans with my friends or family.I don't wait by the phone.And in answer to what you tell him when he asks just say "I had plans of my own "and leave it at that keep him wondering I'm not saying lie but don't be so available. And if he asks why didn't you call say you got busy with family or something.You know that saying we always want what we can't have.Well!!

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 08/30/08 06:53 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me... that`s jumping to conclusions and that`s what driving that little crazy voice inside you -- the truth of where he is tonight,..might be the farthest thing from what your thinkin --

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 08/30/08 06:55 PM
ooopppps I agree with May you may be jumping to conclussions

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 07:07 PM
My question is, is this a new relationship? My new rule is if there are no plans made by wed. for the weekend I make plans with my friends or family.I don't wait by the phone.And in answer to what you tell him when he asks just say "I had plans of my own "and leave it at that keep him wondering I'm not saying lie but don't be so available. And if he asks why didn't you call say you got busy with family or something.You know that saying we always want what we can't have.Well!! do you mind if I write that in my book,..

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 08/30/08 07:27 PM
Well Hell, I have been dateing for quit a while and could write my own book.Some good dates some ,questionable. I lost my husband in 1996 after only a short marriage of 17 months.He was only 37 when he passed away.I don't live in the past I look forward to everyday and what it has to offer.I am looking for companionship and hopefully someone to share my life with I have so much love to give but that doesn't mean I am willing to settle for less.I know that I will probably not meet someone like my husband but that is okay.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 08:02 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt. So I should NOT call...God break my fingers if I even start to dial... definitely don't call instead read the book "He's Just NOT that Into you" Someone please explain to me why a guy calls you constantly...but hes just not into you??? I truely don't get it?