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Topic: So what is it about me...
lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 08/30/08 06:09 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? You give it to them... stop it. I don't give it to them. I take it from them...does that make it different

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:09 PM
boundaries,..someone very special told me,..that when someone crosses that little line,..be prepared to drop them on the spot,...no matter how much you like them,.then if they do come back,..it`s on your terms,..

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 08/30/08 06:12 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? You give it to them... stop it. I don't give it to them. I take it from them...does that make it different Yes, yes it does.... but to answer the question more specifically, why would you wait for any man? fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.... Two is all you get with me.... I'll only look like a fool twice... well in this sort of instince only twice... I always look foolish in other manners.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 08/30/08 06:12 PM
boundaries,..someone very special told me,..that when someone crosses that little line,..be prepared to drop them on the spot,...no matter how much you like them,.then if they do come back,..it`s on your terms,.. and the angels sing AMEN.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 08/30/08 06:16 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? You give it to them... stop it. I don't give it to them. I take it from them...does that make it different Yes, yes it does.... but to answer the question more specifically, why would you wait for any man? fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.... Two is all you get with me.... I'll only look like a fool twice... well in this sort of instince only twice... I always look foolish in other manners. Love, I guess. Love can make me wait. But, love has limits.

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:17 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy --

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:17 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- Promise?

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 08/30/08 06:17 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sat 08/30/08 06:18 PM
Guys like the chase! Keep living your life if he is that interested he will find you.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:20 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome. Oh God, help me what do I do? He always tell me to call him and he always call me alot, however its Saturday night and he did'nt call. My only night without my son. Why do guys say they love you and then do this stuff?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sat 08/30/08 06:22 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome. Oh God, help me what do I do? He always tell me to call him and he always call me alot, however its Saturday night and he did'nt call. My only night without my son. Why do guys say they love you and then do this stuff? If he tells you to call him, then call him!

phirequest Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 197	Sat 08/30/08 06:22 PM
Guys like the chase! Keep living your life if he is that interested he will find you. I chase no one.

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:23 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- Promise? well,..you have to decide who is more important to you,..yourself or him ? will show him you have self respect and will treat you accordingly if he is worth anything,..otherwise,..to the curb !!!!!!!

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:27 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome. Oh God, help me what do I do? He always tell me to call him and he always call me alot, however its Saturday night and he did'nt call. My only night without my son. Why do guys say they love you and then do this stuff? can understand your dilemma here,..I don`t know,..ask your heart what you should do,.is this the first time you`ve felt unsure of where you stand with him ? if it were your very best friend,..what would you tell her to do ?

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/30/08 06:28 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:29 PM
I feel like calling him, but then I give him the upper hand...maybe he should wonder what I'm doing tonight?

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:30 PM
Guys don't want an easy prey .. enjoy the chase & let them enjoy the hunt. So I should NOT call...God break my fingers if I even start to dial...

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 08/30/08 06:30 PM
Why is it when I show a guy I like them as much as they say they like me...they then have instant permission to walk all over me? As soon as they start put and end to it. Choose not to let them walk all over you. So how do I do that? Just call him or wait until he calls me...and tell him its over? do nothing -- don`t call -- don`t return call -- don`t email -- nothing -- will drive him crazy -- but is game playing and can backfire...only don't call if you are seriously trying to end it...cos that could be the outcome. Oh God, help me what do I do? He always tell me to call him and he always call me alot, however its Saturday night and he did'nt call. My only night without my son. Why do guys say they love you and then do this stuff? I`d say,..do whatever it takes to make your night beautiful just for you ,..pizza,..movie,..whatever,..scented bath,..then when he calls,..you`ll be busy keepin you happy,..I know it`s hard,.but you`ll tx yourself in the mornin,..so what`s one night,.spoil yourself,..

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:30 PM
I can make up a great story about what I did tonight...LOL

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 08/30/08 06:32 PM
But the sad reality is he must NOT love me, or he would want to be with me...