A guy asks me for my phone number on the second message. Um, no. I explain why I say no.

So I get a message of him asking me to call him..... Um, no, same reason.

So he messages me asking me to drive up to Souix City Iowa to meet him.....

UM, SERIOUSLY NO!

Some people do NOT get it.

Do people think that friendship = intimate encounter? Am I not up on the 'code'?

people are impatient, especially in our internet-generation.

the wimmins are just as guilty of this as the men are, of course.

Im sure some guys think any response by a woman = intimate encounter

Haha. More than a few times I've gotten friend requests from men I've never heard from before with their phone numbers, telling me to call them.

i got ripped a new one today because I wouldnt give a guy my last name... i said because with that...you can find anything and everything about me

he replied.. SNIPER!!! whats so grand about your home... made of diamonds??????????? LOL

I don't give out my number

Giggles...I hope you told him yes it is

I so agree, not sure why after saying hi men think u want to give them your phone number. Is it wrong to talk online for more then saying hi without thinking your going to get someones digits?

don't give out number or last name, sometimes not even first name. but what moofooga said is true, some women are just as guilty as the men

-hi whats your phone number ? i like to pass it around.

i had one ask me for my postal code.

in canada, a postal code gives your exact street name, which means this creep could have hunted me down.

it was posed in an innocent way as well, and i'd already exchanged a few pleasant emails with him. he said he had parents who lived about 3 hours north of me and his profile address indicated he lived about 1 1/2 hours west of me.

we'd talked about meeting in my area and he'd just either stopover for dinner and continue driving, or get a hotel nearby for himself, and finish the drive in the morning.

so he asked for my postal code so he could ensure that he found a hotel in the area. haha, that made absolutely no sense to me, so i told him to google hotels in the (name of my city) area and locate one that way.

needless-to-say, we never met up, haha.

Does anybody want my number? Lol *runs to hide*

probably because your crazy friend likes to stalk people she thinks should hook up with you.

Wouldn't it be nice if we all could do the talking and getting to know someone...but really? Can I have your number?

i am a dork but i just give em this number 867-5309 or the local police number har har...

I'm sorry you're offended because she said something like "hey guys, you don't live that far away.. you might get along." Though, I do find it strange that you haven't let that go.

well i told him more than that... but sniper??????? wtf is that about...LOL

only if you want prank phone calls... junk mail and crazy women

Hm, I was wondering that too!