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Topic: It's not me, I'm not the one
jtip1977's photo
Fri 08/29/08 02:09 PM





Since you know all sides of the story, tell us what the wife has to say about this.


The wife, and yes I do know her also, but not as well has said to me (I've met her 5 times maybe) says her husband (the guy) doesn't make enough money... he makes 135,000 she said to me on the first time meeting her, "I'm not having sex with him for a month, he took a lower paying job because he was happier, and that doesn't make me happier"

What's her side.... Selfish b*tch....


Oh wait, and he caught her cheating on his couch when he came home from work early one day...


Enough said, the marriage should be over by now then


He took her back for the kids (they have 2) and he did really love her... she in the past (again from what he has told me, but he has no reason to lie to me) has cyber affairs all the time...

Doesn't sound like a good situation for him or the kids if they're together.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 08/29/08 02:14 PM

Doesn't sound like a good situation for him or the kids if they're together.


That's why he's leaving....

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/29/08 05:54 PM
Ya know....it always amazes me to see how hard it is for people to simply say " Hey...if it's what makes them happy, then more power to them ".

Who the hell are WE ( especially we who sit here on a dating site, ) to make judgments about someone else's life?

I saw the post where he came out and told everyone what was going on ( and kudos to you for being able to hang with that sh*t going on for as long as you did. I've been there, but it was physical as well ) and yet, there were no apologies offered for the assumptions that he was a " cheater ".

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/29/08 08:26 PM
And still...no apologies.

What a shock.

onebooper's photo
Fri 08/29/08 08:35 PM
tears Spare yourself the drama! My friend has been hearing the same story for the past 10 years n now she has come to the conclusion that its never gonna happen and she has let the time go by. Your friend deserves better. No need for the added baggage. Tell her to cut her losses n kiss him BYE BYEbrokenheart

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Fri 08/29/08 08:39 PM
Edited by heartSoul on Fri 08/29/08 08:39 PM
He must have divorce papers
I don't want someone's man

This is way too much drama....

The best thing to do is







RUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN..........................

buttons's photo
Fri 08/29/08 08:41 PM
i think he needs some time to heal.... or else it could be a rebound relationship.. and he needs to refind hisselfflowerforyou

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