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Topic: a word to guys
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 01:39 PM
okie so you guys always wonder why we never take you seriously heres a tip. when you treat us like you like us we think you do, but then in the forums you treat every other girl that way we realize you talk to everyone that way. so this would be why we don't take you seriously. it applies to real life. when you treat us a certain way and you make us think we like you but we see you treating every other girl that way we suddenly dont think you are serious anymore. steps off soap-box k im done. AGREED......

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 01:40 PM
when are guys gonna realize the more you do for us the better we get in bed? EVEN MORE AGREED.....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 01:41 PM
men are just dumb!!! COULDN'T AGREE MORE....

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 08/29/08 02:07 PM
ok so let me see if i understand, treat the one we like with respect, but others badly ? Sorry can't do it.... I respect all, and have made many friends both male and female . As for flirting can't hide the fact, I flirt it's part of my personality. oh kojack... no one wants you to treat anyone badly.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:13 PM
I look at it like this... I'm pretty good friends with Goof, he is madly in love with his gf... I have never talked to her, but from day one when we became friends I knew all about her. He flirts but it's restrained to a "friendly flirt" as I call it... He talks about her in the forums, and everyone pretty much knew he was interested in her way back in December and they didn't meet until like Jan or Feb or something like that. I'm a people watcher, and if a man shows real interest in me, I watch how he acts to everyone else, and have stopped talking to a few if they don't know how to control their flirting... and I'm a huge flirt... but when I'm interested in someone, it drops off. I would never want them to feel second best.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Fri 08/29/08 02:18 PM
I look at it like this... I'm pretty good friends with Goof, he is madly in love with his gf... I have never talked to her, but from day one when we became friends I knew all about her. He flirts but it's restrained to a "friendly flirt" as I call it... He talks about her in the forums, and everyone pretty much knew he was interested in her way back in December and they didn't meet until like Jan or Feb or something like that. I'm a people watcher, and if a man shows real interest in me, I watch how he acts to everyone else, and have stopped talking to a few if they don't know how to control their flirting... and I'm a huge flirt... but when I'm interested in someone, it drops off. I would never want them to feel second best. And I think this is exactly what both mary and I were trying to get across. If you have serious interest in someone or feelings for them. But don't make them stand out with your attentions as "the one" like goof does (perfect example btw) How is anyone supposed to take your feelings/interest seriously.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 08/29/08 02:18 PM
Lily, I totally agree with you on that. And there really is two different kinds of flirting. I am a playful flirter, but I make it known that I am dating someone. I do it all in the forums so it's public, hell I even flirt with you but it's just playful fun. I don't take it beyond that. The flirting I do with my bf, is a whole different style entirely

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:24 PM
You're so hott......

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 08/29/08 02:24 PM
You're so hott...... Thank You

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:27 PM
You're so hott...... Thank You anytime babycakes.... See JT has a gf and he friendly flirts....

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 08/29/08 02:27 PM
You're so hott...... No... I think you are

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 08/29/08 02:28 PM
You're so hott...... Thank You anytime babycakes.... See JT has a gf and he friendly flirts.... Hey - you guys are awesome. How can I not flirt with you?

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:29 PM
Hey - you guys are awesome. How can I not flirt with you? and Jill and I are HOTT....

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 08/29/08 02:30 PM
Hey - you guys are awesome. How can I not flirt with you? and Jill and I are HOTT.... I'll watch that

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:31 PM
Hey - you guys are awesome. How can I not flirt with you? and Jill and I are HOTT.... I'll watch that If we put up velvet ropes we could charge a dollar.....

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Fri 08/29/08 02:31 PM
yay finally people who get me lol!

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 08/29/08 02:33 PM
Hey - don't stop with just you and Jill, bring in some more of your friends

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:34 PM
Hey - don't stop with just you and Jill, bring in some more of your friends Most of my friends are guys.... you really wanna see that?

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 08/29/08 02:34 PM
Hey - don't stop with just you and Jill, bring in some more of your friends Most of my friends are guys.... you really wanna see that? Ok - just you and Jill and Lilith then

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 08/29/08 02:35 PM
yay finally people who get me lol! Oh I'm with you sugar, the problem is that most of the guys around here don't "get it" so the issue will always remain... I SAID MOST NOT ALL....