Topic: a word to guys
Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:25 PM
I'll take internet dating for 100$ Alex, laugh bigsmile

Jill298's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:25 PM


when are guys gonna realize the more you do for us the better we get in bed? :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


Ah ha! The truth be known at long last! And here I thought it was all about love!
:laughing: :laughing: love is part of it... but you have to know that you when you do something special for us, buy us something pretty, or even leave cute lil notes and all that good sappy stuff for us... you're gonna get sum that night:laughing:

Goofball73's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:25 PM


and they shouldnt argue with us!!! They should just say "Yes youre right"devil
:laughing: :laughing: my bf says "yes dear"


Smart Man!laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:26 PM
That's it, I'm never flirting out here on the threads again... rant


Except maybe with jt. He has nice m(.)(.)bs

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:26 PM


Well, here's what I think about that. The forums are full of flirting and joking and that's fun. If you are not with someone than that is fine. And, just because you are talking with someone, getting to know them doesn't mean you have to stop. However, once you become serious with someone you probably need to tone it down a bit. If not, it is the same as flirting with others in real life. I'm not overly sensitive about the flirting, guys will be guys, in my opinion. But, it can go too far and hurt the one you are with.



wasnt nec the flirting.. i flirt with everyone. just when you say you like someone but you treat every other girl around you the same as they do you its like wait is he just using a line or does he really like me?

make sense?


If he's telling you the same thing he is telling other girls then he's just playing. Problem is saying "I like you" can mean anything. I wouldn't take a guy seriously unless he straight out told me he seriously wanted to get to know me better to see where it goes. Otherwise, you just don't know.

s1owhand's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:27 PM


Well, here's what I think about that. The forums are full of flirting and joking and that's fun. If you are not with someone than that is fine. And, just because you are talking with someone, getting to know them doesn't mean you have to stop. However, once you become serious with someone you probably need to tone it down a bit. If not, it is the same as flirting with others in real life. I'm not overly sensitive about the flirting, guys will be guys, in my opinion. But, it can go too far and hurt the one you are with.



wasnt nec the flirting.. i flirt with everyone. just when you say you like someone but you treat every other girl around you the same as they do you its like wait is he just using a line or does he really like me?

make sense?


if she's special to me she knows it!!

Jill298's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:28 PM



and they shouldnt argue with us!!! They should just say "Yes youre right"devil
:laughing: :laughing: my bf says "yes dear"


Smart Man!laugh laugh laugh laugh
:laughing: he gets rewarded well for his agreement:laughing:

s1owhand's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:28 PM

and they shouldnt argue with us!!! They should just say "Yes youre right"devil


laugh Yeah. Right! laugh

Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:28 PM
Please sign and date the contract, on the dotted line you can keep the carbon copy laugh :wink:

Jill298's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:29 PM

Please sign and date the contract, on the dotted line you can keep the carbon copy laugh :wink:
:laughing:

no photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:32 PM
Thats because they don't know any better, certain conversations should not take place in there, It's one thing to care about someone and another to take advantage in there.yar

feistybaby's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:35 PM
I should have known Mary would be the twin of my heart. I have longggggggggggggggggggggggg tried to get this point across to people. In fact it used to be the first thing on my profile. I DO NOT DATE FLIRTS. lol till to many people gave me grief about it and I took it off. But the point still being if you are flirting with everyone why should I take you seriously just because you aim it at me? I DON'T...Plain and simple. Even if you tell me you are interested in getting to know me better, if you continue in said flirting without making any differance in the way you do it to single me out....I figgure more hot air....And this isn't a guys/girls issue cause I see the ladies do it too...and same goes....If you flirt with everyone how do you expect the one to know you mean business....

Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:36 PM

I should have known Mary would be the twin of my heart. I have longggggggggggggggggggggggg tried to get this point across to people. In fact it used to be the first thing on my profile. I DO NOT DATE FLIRTS. lol till to many people gave me grief about it and I took it off. But the point still being if you are flirting with everyone why should I take you seriously just because you aim it at me? I DON'T...Plain and simple. Even if you tell me you are interested in getting to know me better, if you continue in said flirting without making any differance in the way you do it to single me out....I figgure more hot air....And this isn't a guys/girls issue cause I see the ladies do it too...and same goes....If you flirt with everyone how do you expect the one to know you mean business....


and to think you told me i was specialbrokenheart :cry: laugh

maryelizabeth10's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:39 PM

I should have known Mary would be the twin of my heart. I have longggggggggggggggggggggggg tried to get this point across to people. In fact it used to be the first thing on my profile. I DO NOT DATE FLIRTS. lol till to many people gave me grief about it and I took it off. But the point still being if you are flirting with everyone why should I take you seriously just because you aim it at me? I DON'T...Plain and simple. Even if you tell me you are interested in getting to know me better, if you continue in said flirting without making any differance in the way you do it to single me out....I figgure more hot air....And this isn't a guys/girls issue cause I see the ladies do it too...and same goes....If you flirt with everyone how do you expect the one to know you mean business....



amen! i make my flirting different if i really like a guy he knows because im really attentive. but im glad someone else knows what i meant honestly.

feistybaby's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:39 PM


I should have known Mary would be the twin of my heart. I have longggggggggggggggggggggggg tried to get this point across to people. In fact it used to be the first thing on my profile. I DO NOT DATE FLIRTS. lol till to many people gave me grief about it and I took it off. But the point still being if you are flirting with everyone why should I take you seriously just because you aim it at me? I DON'T...Plain and simple. Even if you tell me you are interested in getting to know me better, if you continue in said flirting without making any differance in the way you do it to single me out....I figgure more hot air....And this isn't a guys/girls issue cause I see the ladies do it too...and same goes....If you flirt with everyone how do you expect the one to know you mean business....


and to think you told me i was specialbrokenheart :cry: laugh



You are special dubby and I stand behind that....of course I also try to stand behind you, you get too excited when you see the short bus comming down the hill...:wink: rofl

TwoWheeler's photo
Fri 08/29/08 01:19 PM

I should have known Mary would be the twin of my heart. I have longggggggggggggggggggggggg tried to get this point across to people. In fact it used to be the first thing on my profile. I DO NOT DATE FLIRTS. lol till to many people gave me grief about it and I took it off. But the point still being if you are flirting with everyone why should I take you seriously just because you aim it at me? I DON'T...Plain and simple. Even if you tell me you are interested in getting to know me better, if you continue in said flirting without making any differance in the way you do it to single me out....I figgure more hot air....And this isn't a guys/girls issue cause I see the ladies do it too...and same goes....If you flirt with everyone how do you expect the one to know you mean business....


I will say this...

When single, flirting is fine and dandy.

When an interest comes along the flirting is reserved for them.

When actually involved with someone, the flirting never goes away it's just reserved for the one you're with.

Flirting with others is expected when you're single. I don't know why anyone would think it's ok when you're with someone.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 08/29/08 01:21 PM


I will say this...

When single, flirting is fine and dandy.

When an interest comes along the flirting is reserved for them.

When actually involved with someone, the flirting never goes away it's just reserved for the one you're with.

Flirting with others is expected when you're single. I don't know why anyone would think it's ok when you're with someone.


You're sweet. Want an apple?

kojack's photo
Fri 08/29/08 01:25 PM
ok so let me see if i understand, treat the one we like with respect, but others badly ?

Sorry can't do it....

I respect all, and have made many friends both male and female .

As for flirting can't hide the fact, I flirt it's part of my personality.

maryelizabeth10's photo
Fri 08/29/08 01:36 PM

ok so let me see if i understand, treat the one we like with respect, but others badly ?

Sorry can't do it....

I respect all, and have made many friends both male and female .

As for flirting can't hide the fact, I flirt it's part of my personality.



i never said badly and i dont think anyone else did either. what im saying is. if your flirting with say julie and you've told her you really like her and want to get to know her but then you go and flirt with ann the same way you did julie how does that show julie that your serious and that you do care.

because if your flirting with ann suzie and jamie the same way you are julie it looks like your a player or that your not serious when in all actuality you might be.

thats what i was getting at. its so confusing to us girls when you tell us one thing and then go and act that way around every other girl so we sit there and go huh? did he mean it or is it just a game

does that make sense?

i get what you mean im a flirt myself but if i tell a guy i like you and i want to get to know you i flirt with him a different way then i do everyone else. i make sure theres a difference.

kojack's photo
Fri 08/29/08 01:38 PM
Perfect !