alright so a friend of mine messaged me today and asked if i was still seeing her brother in law this weekend.

i never set a date with her to have a double date with her brother in law.

so how do i get out of it?

at first it sounded like a great idea when she goes heres a pic of my brother in law he thinks your beautiful and wants to meet you. but then she told me hes 24 lives at home has no job..

i spent 2 years in a relationship with a guy who didnt have a job. i dont want to go through that again.

any help or advice?

just say no.

honesty is the best policy and you dont forget it.

thank you but no thank you, works for me

good luck

see im the kind of person im honest but i chose the if you cant say something nice dont say anything at all policy sometimes.



i think she assumes i said it because i said one weekend after i get back.

see im the kind of person im honest but i chose the if you cant say something nice dont say anything at all policy sometimes.



i think she assumes i said it because i said one weekend after i get back.

see im the kind of person im honest but i chose the if you cant say something nice dont say anything at all policy sometimes.



i think she assumes i said it because i said one weekend after i get back.

you have a right to say no..she doesnt own you lol

didnt say to be mean

if you opened the door for her to think as such, you should either go out w/unemployed bro-in-law or come clean and let them know you changed your mind

your not oblgated to do jack chitttt

First and formost you are in controll of your life. Having said that, you have choices. First you can just say no thank you, I have changed my mind. Second, you were invited to go out with gf and double date. This doesnt mean you have to keep seeing the guy! Evening ends say good night, end of story. You got to go out with gf and others.

Don't you suddenly feel ill? i think there is a bug going around.

Come take a visit up north
Guaranteed excuse

Have a beer & relax

You don't have to say something bad. Just say that you're not interested in him. Tell your friend that you hope she's not offended because you really cherish your relationship.