I stayed with his lyin, cheatin, arse way to long.

i went out with him

I did all the grocery shopping.
I did all the cooking.
I did all the house cleaning.
I did all the yard work.
I paid the tab every time we went dining.
I paid the tab for nice vacations.
I owned the house and paid the mortgage.
I paid all the bills.
I did the laundry.
I took things to dry cleaners.
I washed the cars/trucks.
I took care of all the vehicle maintenance.
I provided back massages as necessary.
I provided enhanced bedroom adventures()


I made it too easy for her. I think that's where I went wrong.

I put someone else before myself...that is never a good thing to do.

I met her

God, she was so lucky and must have never knew it!

Was a jerk at times, but she still loved me till she died. True story.

I didn't all of it all the time. But over the 17 yrs I sure did most of it and with 2 kids and working full time and getting a degree (2007)
I know it really griped her that that with the same level of education I made more than twice what she made, even before I got the bachelors degree.

I believed they wanted me as much as I wanted them and could not see they were not telling the truth. As they say love is blind. Shhshshsh ohh well we live and learn.