The Million dollar question.

What do women want?

ive been out on a few dates lately and i think i could do better becoming an astronaut than actually ending up in a relationship.

Im a nice guy, i dont push. im at a point in my life where its more important to get to know a woman and have a real connection than it is to just "get some" as fast as possiable.

If women want a nice guy why am i closer to a job at NASA than i am to... a good night kiss?

Aside from my personal issues. This four is a good place for you Ladies to shed some light on all of us. We need it, why else would we be on a dating site. Please be detailed. Its the internet, no one can hold what you say against you.


What do women want?

(any guy who wants to add what men want, feel free. i dont think a lot of women appreciate the fact we may want more than just one thing)

I am not a typical lady... but most ladies just want to be respected, told they are beautiful the way they are, and felt like they are needed... I think... my problem is figuring out what guys want.. besides "in your pants"..

and if she ask you if she looks fat in that dress , you say hell no ! and walk out of the room .....

i think what you have described is what i do but i just come off needy and like a wimp. thats no good

as far as guys

If i had to be honest. id say all guys want to have sex. im no saint in this regard. Id also say to women this is a fact of life so either deal with it or become a nun. you have to be adult enough to know that if a guy asks you out hes hopeing to eventually sleep with you.

that said you also have to know that men also want to be in relationships. for that you have to capture his imagination.

hahaha nahh i say yes and when she gets pissed i let her know not to ask me questions she may not like the answers i give

Look..not ALL guys are strictly after sex.

Some of us actually look for something special, and consider the sex as a good bonus.

Mainly, we ( I ) just want someone who can accept us ( me ) for who we ( I ) are. Sometimes silly, rarely completely serious, sarcastic, cynical and good hearted among other things.

They want a guy with a good weiner

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If you are the right person things will happen, if not they will walk away.

What are you doing wrong? Too little information.

the only thing that people want
or need is love
with this all else is possible
in its absence there is no substitute
it is the perfect gender neutral
what every woman wants
what every man must also have

i could care less about having sex with a lots of women if didnt have feelings 4 them and didnt know them really well then sex is absolutely nothing to me
a real man doesnt want and need 2 have sex with all the ladies he meets in fact women will pursuit a real man passionately and wont let him go no matter wat when they find him thats if they ever find 1 in their lifetime

I dont know about all women, but i want respect. Respect meaning dont cheat on me and act like Im stupid. I want to know whats going on in my partners mind.Tell me, dont assume I would be mad.Tell me somethings missing, so I can fix it.Dont go get it from someone else. I want love and friendship.A safe place to be at the end of the day.Is that too much to ask for?

the in ur pants part... is deff a reality... isn't it sad.....

Its not sad to think about "in your pants" Its sad to only think about "in your pants"..........

Women think that way too though. We dont want to be thought of as just a friend by someone we find attractive. Do we?

It depends on the situation.......... Everyone has the need to feel desired, wanted, attractive......... Everyone needs passion in their lives.........

I want love, friendship, shared laughter, fidelity, a passion hot enough to burn us both to cinders, respect, a confidante, someone to build a future with, watch a sunrise with, dance under the moonlight with, share my dreams with, fullfill my fantasies with. This list could get lengthy soooooo










I WANT IT ALL~

I just want a one woman man except............... maybe on his birthday. lol

what each individual woman wants is different, and no one wants to be lumped into a group with the masses, just because of one characteristic (in this case, their being female). however, here's a few that matter to me:

a man confident enough in his own ability and who is bold enough to show his interest (doesn't matter whether there is pursuit or not).

a man who accepts me exactly as i am, flaws and all and never makes any attempt to try and change me, either the way i look, or the way that i think.

a man who doesn't make demands, expectations, or assumptions - either on me, or on the relationship.

a man who treats me with dignity, courtesy and respect and there is mutual support, admiration, interests, compatibility and rapport.

a man with a sense of humour, whether it be silly, witty, dry, even perverted...anything that gets me smiling and laughing.

a man who is at ease with himself and doesn't need me around to stroke his ego (stroking at the right times is okay, so long as it doesn't become a need, or a must).

a man who flirts, teases and banters with me, which indicates (to me) he is physically stimulated, as well as mentally aroused by me.

a man who shows me that i am the only woman he is interested in and attracted to in a romantic way. i'm not into competition and/or games.

a man who isn't averse to traditional roles and allows my feminine side to be nurtured while, at the same time, not relegating me to any sole position within the relationship.

a man who can recognize the difference between when I need him to take up for me and the times when i choose to defend myself.

a man who is wise enough to allow me breathing room with which to grow. the guy who tries to hold the bouquet of flowers as tight as he can, usually ends up choking the very life out of them.

a man who continues to do all of these things, even after the falling in love happens, and not because it is asked for, but rather because he wants to.

the "in your pants" deal, I prefer to call making love, and that is the dance in celebration of finding love...

2 things Women want...of which i am certain


1. Shoes
2. Shiny Sparkley Things

I would say other than these, all women have their own criteria