I'm not even sure women know what they want.

omg...why is this all directed at women only may I ask? Do you know how many train wrecks I have met in my lifetime?

Lots !!!!!!!!! male and female.... I see no difference between gender I really do not. There are just as many men as women who do not know what they want in life and play head games and are completely insane train wrecks.

A 25 pound box of money!

some one to drive us crazy .......
to be crazy in love
& have the other feel the same way

not sure of all women, but for me, I want a man that will be my best friend, protector, provider, lover, and HERO. I don't want him to change for me..I want the difference he brings to the relationship.

I want him to be honest and truthful. Let me know his feelings, his expectations and desires in a relationship. I need to know he will be faithful and commit to just us as a team and put me first in his life as I will him. Not asking much I think, just give me the same respect, openess, love and comittment I give him.

Treat kindly and lovingly.

Nuff said,

Melody

Just my opinion but I think they want love, patience, understanding, hot sex, and security, all from one person who isn't hideously ugly and who can be trusted not to throw their heart in the nearest dumpster for some quick easy lay from some bimbo.

What do women want? Hmmmmm
I personally don't feel there is that much difference between the
sexes. I think we both want the same things...

To be loved, really cared for, listened to, helped, touched,
tell our dreams to, and share pretty much everything.

Guys wear different kinds of clothes, but even that is changing.

I would suggest that any guy trying to make points with any
woman just treat her like a person. If she's a spoiled brat,
go somewhere else. if she wants you to buy her "things", go
somewhere else. If she wants to rag on you all the time,
go somewhere else.

I do think I have just remembered what some women do...they are
spoiled brats that want to be catered to all the time.

How do I know that? Because I just dumped a good female friend that
has all these qualities.

Women want you to be what they want, They just dont come out and tell you. They play too many games, they try to trick you into thinking you should be one way, Then when you fall for it and do. They say to themselves, ahh i knew he was like that, NEXT.
Women are shallow, and by that I mean they think they will know their dream man within 5 minutes of meeting them. Obviouslly they are wrong, thats why they are still single and alone, they refuse to settle.Settling isnt necessarily wrong, but they cant risk being with someone when Prince charming arrives. Newsflash.... The man of their dreams is a fantasy. If a fantasy happens, it no longer is a fantasy. Duh.. NEXT

Other women just want attention, the more men they can get to notice them the better they feel about themselves.
But too much attention and you smother them.. NEXT
Final thoughts....... Just be yourself dude.... Dont try to be what they want. Cuz they have no idea. Be mysterious enough but not about important things. Dont be to readily available, they want you around , until you are.
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Tell me about it. I try to ignore these type of posts but there are so many. How can anyone group a gender as if there is a standard formula?

What do women want? I can't speak for other women but the following may make you think.

Description of love is from the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin:

When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake,(volcano would be a better word) and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away... (Iannis to Pelagia ( End of quote)

I want the love where it is inconceivable to ever part.

Well it has been over 3 years since I last answered this one.



Women want a guy they like to ask them out and show them a good time!

I want a man that has the "courage" to ask me:

What do you need? What do you want?

( recently, that kind of man was in my life. ) He was what I would call. A wild dream come true!... Or gift from life! Because, with him and his fantasies not only I gained his trust to share those with me , but also embraced the honesty and "madness" that attraction, visualization and chemistry brings! How a man thinks,! This man ,also , has helped me to learn and reaffirm my set expectations...I want friendship that leads to marriage.


In my romantic life---The experience I had with a person throughout 26 years lets me think:...if that was very good growth in my youth ( we split and he is married now)....the best is yet to come : spiritually, financially, cognitively, emotionally with profound joy to have found each other's existence!


And the foundation of the best to come are from these responses of a spiritual leader:
Spend some time alone every day.
Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
Live a good honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
When you lose don't lose the lesson.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

I can't speak for all women....but I from my perspective.....I want a man who isn't afraid of his emotions. I want a man who's [atient....wise...enduring...tough and tender.....a man who walks to the beat of HIS DRUM and would rather die than follow the HERD. That's what I want from a Man.

...its really not rocket science...most of us put it somewhere in our profile...mine says Intrests: MEN, TRAVEL, CHOCOLATE...I would have added sex, but then all the creepers start checkin out ones profile..... but once again "not rocket science"

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