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Topic: Why don't some people get a hint....
TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:45 AM
It's like, how many times do you have to tell somone something before they get a hint. Alot of people will keep going over and over the same situation. I'm like, what part of stop don't you understand. Why beat yourself up this way. I come to realizez that some people have no clue in life that you hvae to be an Ass-h just to get it across to them and it sucks. No i'm not happy, but chit happens and you try to move on.


OH! good moringlaugh

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:46 AM

It's like, how many times do you have to tell somone something before they get a hint. Alot of people will keep going over and over the same situation. I'm like, what part of stop don't you understand. Why beat yourself up this way. I come to realizez that some people have no clue in life that you hvae to be an Ass-h just to get it across to them and it sucks. No i'm not happy, but chit happens and you try to move on.


OH! good moringlaugh


I KNOW, and they say I'm mean....

somewhatshy2's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:47 AM
some people are just slower than others, or just don't really care.

good morning to you too! hope your day is full of laughterflowerforyou

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:48 AM
Yeah ...

Good morning to you too brodrinker

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:48 AM


It's like, how many times do you have to tell somone something before they get a hint. Alot of people will keep going over and over the same situation. I'm like, what part of stop don't you understand. Why beat yourself up this way. I come to realizez that some people have no clue in life that you hvae to be an Ass-h just to get it across to them and it sucks. No i'm not happy, but chit happens and you try to move on.


OH! good moringlaugh


I KNOW, and they say I'm mean....


Mean? awww i doubt that flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:50 AM



It's like, how many times do you have to tell somone something before they get a hint. Alot of people will keep going over and over the same situation. I'm like, what part of stop don't you understand. Why beat yourself up this way. I come to realizez that some people have no clue in life that you hvae to be an Ass-h just to get it across to them and it sucks. No i'm not happy, but chit happens and you try to move on.


OH! good moringlaugh


I KNOW, and they say I'm mean....


Mean? awww i doubt that flowerforyou


That's cuz I never had to hit you in the face with a big dose of reality.... you're not stupid.

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:50 AM
Some just refuse to believe the negative..so they try to rationalize it for their benefit.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:52 AM

Some just refuse to believe the negative..so they try to rationalize it for their benefit.


aw, Jules, I think you're on to something here... I never thought about it that way... So really it could be just as detrimental as people who are negative all the time.... Nice catch there...Kudos.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:53 AM




It's like, how many times do you have to tell somone something before they get a hint. Alot of people will keep going over and over the same situation. I'm like, what part of stop don't you understand. Why beat yourself up this way. I come to realizez that some people have no clue in life that you hvae to be an Ass-h just to get it across to them and it sucks. No i'm not happy, but chit happens and you try to move on.


OH! good moringlaugh


I KNOW, and they say I'm mean....


Mean? awww i doubt that flowerforyou


That's cuz I never had to hit you in the face with a big dose of reality.... you're not stupid.

I hear ya sweets :smile:

no photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:53 AM
I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/27/08 04:55 AM

Some just refuse to believe the negative..so they try to rationalize it for their benefit.


Now that is so true. I know i make mistakes in life. But if somone is telling me something plane and simple. I listen, don't have to tell me twice laugh

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:00 AM

I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.


Right..this is what I mean.. he refuses to believe that you truly have these boundaries, he thinks he can "get through those" for his benefit.

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:02 AM


Some just refuse to believe the negative..so they try to rationalize it for their benefit.


Now that is so true. I know i make mistakes in life. But if somone is telling me something plane and simple. I listen, don't have to tell me twice laugh


Everyone makes mistakes.. just not everyone admits that they do. laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:05 AM
Happy Hump Day Shadow drinker


*purposely ignores the stupid people part ..* frustrated

no photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:11 AM
Morning ((((Shadow)))))

How's everything? flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:15 AM


I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.


Right..this is what I mean.. he refuses to believe that you truly have these boundaries, he thinks he can "get through those" for his benefit.


Jules, sounds like we are both having a trying time!!! frustrated frustrated frustrated

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:16 AM

I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.


Not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.

^^^And that part is what is driving me nuts. OK this should be simple for everone here. If i tell you i don't want you a part of my life. Are you going to keep trying to be?laugh


TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:17 AM

Happy Hump Day Shadow drinker


*purposely ignores the stupid people part ..* frustrated


Id like to, but it's the exfrustrated laugh

no photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:17 AM


I'm going through something similar, if I get your drift. And, that person keeps trying to tell me that I'm holding myself back, that I'm the one being negative. Hey, if I have a boundary, it's not just some arbitrary thing. It's there for a reason. "Do not trespass" means exactly that, not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.


Not let's talk this over until I convince you you're wrong to have it.

^^^And that part is what is driving me nuts. OK this should be simple for everone here. If i tell you i don't want you a part of my life. Are you going to keep trying to be?laugh




Yup, cause you're wrong, wrong, wrong! You don't know what you want rofl rofl rofl

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/27/08 05:18 AM

Morning ((((Shadow)))))

How's everything? flowerforyou


Moring:smile: Well this post should say it laugh

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