Whats up people, I moved here in Toms River NJ after I retired from the military because I've always loved the beach. The problem I have found in this area is finding ladies that want to commit to a relationship. Its almost impossible to find a lady that doesn't want to just spend your money and then move on if the money runs out. Believe me people its not like I give the impression that I'm made of money. The ladies around here just seem to only want a Friday or Saturday night out on the town and have the one night fling. Ladies believe me when I say there are some guy's out there that have respect for themselves and the lady to not want to just jump in the sack and have at it. Then the other thing is there are some very fine looking ladies with great personalities but they dress like moms with 6 kids. If u tell them there pretty they cop an attitude like u just said take your clothes off now. Last I've found u go to these dating sites because let's face it the bars are not good places to find a true relationship and most of the ladies have this attitude like they can't believe there stooping so low as to join a site. Face it girls If you really think your that hot then u shouldn't need to be in here so maybe you should get rid of the swollen head and start acting like us normal people that really are looking for trust, honesty, and that person you never want to be without.

welcome

Ouch, sounds like you have been burned...too bad you are on the east coast. I am in Phoenix and on the female side of your statement. I keep running into guys who just want to"date"; translation=get laid a couple of times and then move on.

Good luck and if you need a grounded female perspective to remind you, when your hope is low and you are feeling cynical. That there are still wonderful, sensual, passionate, intelligent ladies with some serious private skills available. Just check into this forum. If what I have been reading all night, due to sleeplessness, is any indication you can find them here. God speed and be safe

There our some ladies left in Mississippi but I could say the same about the men in this state. I believe friendship first is the foundtion for a good relationship. So don't despair we our out there don't let bitterness sit in. Keep the faith!!!