So I was trying to cheer up, play some video games before I went for a jog, then I check my email. The ex wrote me, telling me how much of a ***** I was. Maybe she is right, maybe I am wimp, but it doesn't help having her make me feel like **** even when we aren't together, is she just gonna keep doing this, have a bad day, write me tell me how much of a wimp I am for crying when she left. For taking time before I get serious, for being angry about being lied to about everything this past year from, wanting to work things out to she isn't seeing anyone? I'll be glad when the divorce is over Oct. 1st. But how am I to attempt to get better having her hateful voice always popping up saying something hurtful enough to ring in my ears for days?

I don't get why she thinks she can blame me, she cheated on me, she left me, she lied to me, all I did was get drunk and move away to get my head straight. I would stop talking to her, but I need tax info yet so I can get financial Aid for school, I need my stuff back yet, then after all that and the divorce, I am leaving no trace to be found, but she's like a dog, she knows my scent and tracks me down and tries to eat my soul. She is a demon dog that I wish I could put down.

So I was trying to cheer up, play some video games before I went for a jog, then I check my email. The ex wrote me, telling me how much of a ***** I was. Maybe she is right, maybe I am wimp, but it doesn't help having her make me feel like **** even when we aren't together, is she just gonna keep doing this, have a bad day, write me tell me how much of a wimp I am for crying when she left. For taking time before I get serious, for being angry about being lied to about everything this past year from, wanting to work things out to she isn't seeing anyone? I'll be glad when the divorce is over Oct. 1st. But how am I to attempt to get better having her hateful voice always popping up saying something hurtful enough to ring in my ears for days?

I don't get why she thinks she can blame me, she cheated on me, she left me, she lied to me, all I did was get drunk and move away to get my head straight. I would stop talking to her, but I need tax info yet so I can get financial Aid for school, I need my stuff back yet, then after all that and the divorce, I am leaving no trace to be found, but she's like a dog, she knows my scent and tracks me down and tries to eat my soul. She is a demon dog that I wish I could put down.

trust me broski, i know bad...things are always darker before the light...bla bla bla...but just think know you dont have to be pinned to someone you hate

If you don't have children together....or stuff of hers to give back, you simply never have to speak to or see her again.

That's what restraining orders are for.



Or.....


I'll kick her a$$ for you for $5.

That's probably the most well put advice I've heard so far. Thanks

Also thank you all for your advice and concern, I have to stay in contact for a little more than a month, then i can be done with her forever, I'll just be *****ing about it from time to time until then.

Bounce back, man.
You are the master of your own destiny!
Look at yourself in the mirror and with conviction tell yourself:
"You are INDESTRUCTIBLE"
We have all been there at one time or another, release the anger on a punching bag, or exercise machine.
Screw what she thinks of you, she wants you to be an a-hole then be an a-hole with dignity!
Find your center and get yourself up on your feet!
The best revenge is SUCCESS!

Two words sweetie: RESTRAINING ORDER

worked with my ex-husband, could mean a world of peace w/ yours

Jt did you ever get the info I found for you?