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Topic: Maybe Its Not for Me
briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 08/20/08 11:52 AM
Did you ever feel like you were mature enough to have a relationship, but not mature enough to handle a relationship

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Wed 08/20/08 11:54 AM
I go with the flow why label it just call it a comingling of two members of the opposite sex and leave it to chance...

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Wed 08/20/08 11:54 AM Edited by dawnyhi on Wed 08/20/08 11:54 AM
whoops

Redneckmaninsc Joined Sun 03/02/08 Posts: 331	Wed 08/20/08 11:58 AM
It's not you, It's me!

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Wed 08/20/08 12:02 PM
I know I am mature enough to have one, I am just not interested in the BS that comes with most relationships. That's why it's important to build a friendship first instead of rushing into something and finding out later there are things about the person you cant deal with.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/20/08 12:02 PM
Not since I turned 25.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 08/20/08 12:04 PM
I know I am mature enough to have one, I am just not interested in the BS that comes with most relationships. That's why it's important to build a friendship first instead of rushing into something and finding out later there are things about the person you cant deal with.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 08/20/08 12:05 PM
Did you ever feel like you were mature enough to have a relationship, but not mature enough to handle a relationship I dont think anyone is perfect but I do think that alot of long time bachelors cant handle relationships because they dont know how to share their space well......ask my ex husband!!! Im not sure he can live with human life forms!!!

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 08/20/08 12:09 PM
Did you ever feel like you were mature enough to have a relationship, but not mature enough to handle a relationship I dont think anyone is perfect but I do think that alot of long time bachelors cant handle relationships because they dont know how to share their space well......ask my ex husband!!! Im not sure he can live with human life forms!!! To be honest, sense i have been alone for the last two years, i do find it hard to invite someone for long periods of time

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Wed 08/20/08 12:21 PM
Did you ever feel like you were mature enough to have a relationship, but not mature enough to handle a relationship I dont think anyone is perfect but I do think that alot of long time bachelors cant handle relationships because they dont know how to share their space well......ask my ex husband!!! Im not sure he can live with human life forms!!! To be honest, sense i have been alone for the last two years, i do find it hard to invite someone for long periods of time Ahh two years is nothing, I've lived alone for about 13 now, and I'm eccentric as h3ll. I think I could deal with another person being around all the time, but I wonder if they could deal with me now. That being said, I'm still trying!!

spidersnsuch Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 47	Wed 08/20/08 12:26 PM
Did you ever feel like you were mature enough to have a relationship, but not mature enough to handle a relationship I dont think anyone is perfect but I do think that alot of long time bachelors cant handle relationships because they dont know how to share their space well......ask my ex husband!!! Im not sure he can live with human life forms!!! To be honest, sense i have been alone for the last two years, i do find it hard to invite someone for long periods of time Ahh two years is nothing, I've lived alone for about 13 now, and I'm eccentric as h3ll. I think I could deal with another person being around all the time, but I wonder if they could deal with me now. That being said, I'm still trying!! Well alot of us are now stuck in that position, I think. Being somewhat used to our own space and such... but then I spent half my marriage living alone and it didn't help! Maybe space is an issue, but I'm told the right person will make that change... Just haven't met him yet...