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Im thinkin if your stuff is in the yard its prolly a bit to late... heres another question...I see all these threads people post about why is my man/woman pissed at me?? what did i do wrong??? My first response would be....DOES HE/SHE KNOW YOURE ON A DATING SITE???? Missy.... LMFAO!!!! Nope. They had omelettes and cheesy potatoes in bed this morning while they made sweet love and made plans for retirement. There was no problem until he suddenly returned home to find his belongings outside. There were no warning, no arguments, and no misdeeds. Certainly not belonging to a dating site. For shame!!!  Isn't that messy? Maybe that's why his stuff is in the yard, he ruined the silk sheets with the cheesy potato sex.... 
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OMG!!! You figured it out.... she kicked him to the curb because he messed up the sheets.
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OMG!!! You figured it out.... she kicked him to the curb because he messed up the sheets. I used my deductive reasoning skills... I'm good like that... 
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Im thinkin if your stuff is in the yard its prolly a bit to late... heres another question...I see all these threads people post about why is my man/woman pissed at me?? what did i do wrong??? My first response would be....DOES HE/SHE KNOW YOURE ON A DATING SITE???? Missy.... LMFAO!!!! Nope. They had omelettes and cheesy potatoes in bed this morning while they made sweet love and made plans for retirement. There was no problem until he suddenly returned home to find his belongings outside. There were no warning, no arguments, and no misdeeds. Certainly not belonging to a dating site. For shame!!! HAHAHA..its true though, Im sure you have noticed and alot lately I might add..These people who are new come here posting these sad sad sob stories about how their wife left em and their dog died and the pick up truck broke down..because she found out they were into online dating...good grief.... Now THATS a country song for ya !!! Say it with a lil "twang"... |
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OMG!!! You figured it out.... she kicked him to the curb because he messed up the sheets. This is EXACTLY why I will not tolerate food in the bedroom from my SO..Nope... 
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Best way to find out why things happened and how to prevent a repeat experience is to see a personal, FEMALE, counselor (psychologist). I say FEMALE counselor because you get a better understanding of the things you did and went through from the female point of view. Another man's (male counselor) point of view will be limited by the male perspective and that won't help you at all. Ummm..... BULLCRAP. I work with psychologists and I can tell you this sort of bias rarely exists. As we are all people, there is the potentiality of this happening, but Psychs are professional and as such, objective. If you want an understanding of what the other person's views are, learn EMPATHY and COMMUNICATION. True story. How does one learn empathy and communication if they don't know how? Will they learn it on their own or from their significant other? Not a chance. Personal counseling is the only way. Not bullcrap! So, male counselors think exactly like female ones? Perhaps instead of observing their bahaviors in the office, you should make appointments and try both a female and a male counselor yourself. You'll see the difference. |
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I am sooooo feeling the empathy and compassion in this thread....
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Best way to find out why things happened and how to prevent a repeat experience is to see a personal, FEMALE, counselor (psychologist). I say FEMALE counselor because you get a better understanding of the things you did and went through from the female point of view. Another man's (male counselor) point of view will be limited by the male perspective and that won't help you at all. Ummm..... BULLCRAP. I work with psychologists and I can tell you this sort of bias rarely exists. As we are all people, there is the potentiality of this happening, but Psychs are professional and as such, objective. If you want an understanding of what the other person's views are, learn EMPATHY and COMMUNICATION. True story. How does one learn empathy and communication if they don't know how? Will they learn it on their own or from their significant other? Not a chance. Personal counseling is the only way. Not bullcrap! So, male counselors think exactly like female ones? Perhaps instead of observing their bahaviors in the office, you should make appointments and try both a female and a male counselor yourself. You'll see the difference. How does one learn empathy and communication if they dont know how, you ask...Well first would to be to learn HONESTY...if youre a big flamin ass liar its all down hill from there and who cares about empathy... I cant empathize with someone who got his crap thrown on the lawn because his SO found out he was on a dating site...Sorry , youre cheater..i woulda set it on fire after i threw it on the lawn |
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i read the profile.... he was never married.. seems to me he was totally dumped for what reason im sure doesnt matter.. but i dont see why he should not be on a dating site and if he is my thoughts would be its none of her business anymore
...... looks like he likes to drink perhaps she didnt? and he likes to play a lot.. perhaps irrisponsible? perhaps he plays without her too much? who knows just a few things to think about.... everyone is different.. but i know as a woman and <my thoughts> and of course im different than everyone else is i dont like my partner to leave me out all the time... sure i like him to do things on his own dont get me wrong.... but i feel you should be best friends and closer than anyone else....and when you go out to play with friends and leave the other behind all the time is not cool.. or to not have one on one time together and more time should be spent together than with others... if it leans to like 50% or less with your partner on your free time something just doesnt seem right about that.... and that is jmo
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If you don't have empathy and good communication skills by the time you're an adult (which is sad)... umm.... you do need professional help. Non gender specific. Psychologists are trained to objectively find a solution, in other words to give you the tools you need. A male doc would've taught you the same.
I have tried male and female counselors..... crap. It's why I utilize psychologists. They are better trained. I've met crappy male ones and crappy females ones, and awesome fantastic of both genders too. In this, I mean in observation and personally, throughout my life. |
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oh and ps im needy
or have been called high matainence cause i do need time with my partner... and i want 75% of the free time 
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Kill Joy
OMG!!! You figured it out.... she kicked him to the curb because he messed up the sheets. This is EXACTLY why I will not tolerate food in the bedroom from my SO..Nope... |
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but but but....if i get the tools and improve my situation.....
what will i have to complain about???? If you don't have empathy and good communication skills by the time you're an adult (which is sad)... umm.... you do need professional help. Non gender specific. Psychologists are trained to objectively find a solution, in other words to give you the tools you need. A male doc would've taught you the same. I have tried male and female counselors..... crap. It's why I utilize psychologists. They are better trained. I've met crappy male ones and crappy females ones, and awesome fantastic of both genders too. In this, I mean in observation and personally, throughout my life. |
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Sleeping in the yard would hurt your back just remove the rock.
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Sleeping in the yard would hurt your back just remove the rock. go see a counselor......it will help. maybe try an AA group....and look at yourself through someone elses eyes. cheesey potatoes in bed  I'll buy ya new sheets 
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You buy the beer and I will help you drink it and I am a good listner
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