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Topic: Signals
SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:19 AM
Ok Guys and Gals.. Do overt signals work better or covert signals when a girl or gal is getting your attention they are interested?


Also, name a good way a guy or girl can grab your attention from all others and show you they are highly into you...

elwoodsully's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:21 AM
Edited by elwoodsully on Wed 08/20/08 09:22 AM
I would have to say overt, because we guys are slow thinkers..

To get my attention? Learn, and use my name. Sounds simple enough.

plk1966's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:22 AM
subtle hints sometimes require a hammerhappy

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:22 AM
You should watch The Bachelor, or The Bachelorette !!! Those people REALLY try to grab attention for Mr. or Ms. America!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh

DirkGently's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:24 AM
i thought this was gonna be about my favorite rush album.


most of my life i've needed someone to make a sign with foot high letters that say "hey, dumba**, i'm interested!"

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM
I can't differentiate between a genuine interest and just the normal flirting that goes on between men and women. So, it would have to be more overt for me.

Megamansilly's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM
what are thoughs?

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM

I would have to say overt, because we guys are slow thinkers..

To get my attention? Learn, and use my name. Sounds simple enough.


So throwing that rock at you was probably over the top? flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM
LOL. I have already stated a while back that I am not good with subtlety.

I basically have to be hit in the head with a club to actually know that someone is interested. lol

ziggyzogy's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:27 AM
be blunt, guys love a classy ladie who can come right out and say what they want or need!!
best way walk up say can i talk to you then wisper in his ear what you want..:banana: bigsmile

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:27 AM
Edited by SimplyElla on Wed 08/20/08 09:28 AM
err can we say annoying!!

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:27 AM


what are thoughs?
:laughing:

ziggyzogy's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:28 AM
that would have worked for me:banana:

elwoodsully's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:28 AM


I would have to say overt, because we guys are slow thinkers..

To get my attention? Learn, and use my name. Sounds simple enough.


So throwing that rock at you was probably over the top? flowerforyou


Well, kinda, as my back was to you.. SHEESH.

BobbyJ's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:31 AM
Overt signals are best. Men like it when a woman overtly flirts with them.

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 12:13 PM
We read one line and then the next. Don't hide stuff in between them.

lilith401's photo
Wed 08/20/08 12:16 PM
I like overt.


I usually just say, "I really like you", and sometimes provide specific reasons. I find it extremely helpful to share my feelings, as it is helpful for both me and the other person, who should never be expected to read my mind.

I try to never say, "You know what you did"..... after all, why bother being self aware if you don't share that knowledge with the people in your life you care for?

briancarr's photo
Wed 08/20/08 12:16 PM

Ok Guys and Gals.. Do overt signals work better or covert signals when a girl or gal is getting your attention they are interested?


Also, name a good way a guy or girl can grab your attention from all others and show you they are highly into you...
The best way is to know a little more than the next person, about something that they are interested inwinking

lilith401's photo
Wed 08/20/08 12:20 PM
Ohhh, here is what I did. I changed my ring tone to the same one he has, but only when he calls. It is the OSU fight song. I messaged him to tell him, and left it at that. Nothing more needed to be said. He got the message loud and clear.

Yes, yes, I'm a hopeless romantic people pleaser. Tell me something I don't know.

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 12:21 PM
Guys do not understand subtlety

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