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Good morning sunshine

Haven't seen you in a while, glad I signed on this morning, Hope your doing great

Well I have already stated my own thoughts for me but after reading more comments I have to add this.


I would have no problems with my s/o keeping in touch with friends. Would I want them still on a dating site? Probably not. I think it would all depend on how the issue was handled and if my s/o was open or secretive about the issue and who they talked with there and how. I will get slammed for this AGAIN because I have stated on many occasions that I believe staying on a dating site after you are in a relationship is a)very disrespectful of your partner and thier feelings b)gives the impression that you aren't completely satisfied with your relationship and are leaving the door open for the next bigger better deal to come along c) that you aren't really totally committed to the relationship you are in to begin with.

Now all this said I don't think that leaving a dating site or being asked to leave one is asking to much from a s/o. If they tried to seperate me from my friends in other venues e-mail, phone, etc then it becomes a trust/control issue. And there will be problems.

Just my nickle's worth of thoughts for the morning~

I tend to compartmentalize this site... the forums are for socializing, the e-mails and MM are for dating.

I am going to stay on the site. The guy I just starting dating has been reading all the lovely things I say about him.... (not a poster though), and I say a person with nothing to hide, hides nothing.

I've made such great friends here. I say if I am in a relationship with a person who cares about me and I want to stay here with my friends, I doubt he would begrudge me that, or even think for one minute I'd be "looking". As those of you who know me on here are well aware, I tend to express myself pretty clearly. That goes the same for romantic relationships.

uhm honestly, I don't try to hook up with anyone on jsh/mingle i use to flirt I don't really do that anymore.

anyways when my bf and I got together my dating websites i disabled them and took them off if i could this one i just changed the heading to cause i only get on at work when i'm bored gives me a chat to go into thats not like yahoo chat where im bombarded by porn ims and weirdos. ... plus i like the religion section hee hee... anyways though ...

the reason i say i'd deactivate, would my girlfriend want me a on dating site hell no, why people kick it , on a dating, site got me, becuz i belive if party 2 had a significant other, they'd be bouncin like a bad check, and not looking back either, I mean if they met here, sure little diffrent but this is still a dating site, regardless,