Topic: I don't ask for much...
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Tue 08/19/08 08:24 PM
Go for it until he says no.

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 08/19/08 08:37 PM
(((( Lily ))))

You rock girlfriend. Just chill with him and help him feel comfortable .. be available & give him lots of opportunities to 'move in for the kill'

rofl rofl rofl

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 08/19/08 08:38 PM
All about that eye contact, and smiling jmo anyway,


I wish the best of luck to you,


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Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:08 AM
UGGGGHHHHHH.... didn't go well...another one bites the dust.

He was weird and odd, and just obnoxious...

Good thing I have a date tomorrow...(not with him)

At one point in the conversation he said to me...TO ME of all people..."when I get married I'll allow my wife to work, but when we have kids, she's going to only work part time" DONE...FINISHED, THE FAT LADY SANG.

Like I need some man to tell me I'm "allowed" to do anything, and any man who thinks he will "allow" me to do anything...well, he's got another thing coming...

then he said to me (he goes to Purdue for his maters in engineering, and my ex husband is an engineer) "I'm already better off than your ex, cuz I have my masters and he only has an undergrad" LIKE IT WAS A CONTEST.

we met some of our friends after the game and he said to one girl (who is in law school) "The problem with women lawyers is that they have too much emotion and not enough logic to win alot of cases, and I know this because I have 4 sisters" (none of which are lawyers....

and to my best friend in the whole world who is a Media Producer "Anyone can get the degree you have, you have no marketable skills in the real world"

I threw in the towel after that.... NEXT....


JaceKnows's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:10 AM

UGGGGHHHHHH.... didn't go well...another one bites the dust.

He was weird and odd, and just obnoxious...

Good thing I have a date tomorrow...(not with him)

At one point in the conversation he said to me...TO ME of all people..."when I get married I'll allow my wife to work, but when we have kids, she's going to only work part time" DONE...FINISHED, THE FAT LADY SANG.

Like I need some man to tell me I'm "allowed" to do anything, and any man who thinks he will "allow" me to do anything...well, he's got another thing coming...

then he said to me (he goes to Purdue for his maters in engineering, and my ex husband is an engineer) "I'm already better off than your ex, cuz I have my masters and he only has an undergrad" LIKE IT WAS A CONTEST.

we met some of our friends after the game and he said to one girl (who is in law school) "The problem with women lawyers is that they have too much emotion and not enough logic to win alot of cases, and I know this because I have 4 sisters" (none of which are lawyers....

and to my best friend in the whole world who is a Media Producer "Anyone can get the degree you have, you have no marketable skills in the real world"

I threw in the towel after that.... NEXT....




He suddenly doesn't sound that shy to me...

Sorry Lilly! )= flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

love :heart: Lilly :heart: love

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:13 AM

Sorry Lilly! )= flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

love :heart: Lilly :heart: love


No worries, I'm patient...

JaceKnows's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:14 AM


Sorry Lilly! )= flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

love :heart: Lilly :heart: love


No worries, I'm patient...


Okay, you be the patient, and I'll be the doctor! love love love love love

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Wed 08/20/08 01:20 AM
told ya he was gay!!!:wink: laugh drinker

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:24 AM

told ya he was gay!!!:wink: laugh drinker


Why do I have to turn out the gay ones????

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:26 AM
Then he says "I wanna leave around noon on friday to go to chicago" and I said "have a good trip, be safe"

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Wed 08/20/08 01:30 AM
how long do you talk to these guys before you go out with them????

Goofball73's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:31 AM
Men in Ohio SUCK!!!!!bigsmile laugh :wink: flowerforyou

Sluggo's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:32 AM

We've been out about 2-3 times a week for the last few weeks, and went camping (with our "crew") last weekend. We stay up til 6am usually and talk.....


It's funny you just noticed all these things about the guy what what

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Wed 08/20/08 01:33 AM

how long do you talk to these guys before you go out with them????
what WE'RE suppose to TALK FIRST???lol




Just kidding,wink..

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Wed 08/20/08 01:46 AM
I dont know about you but I talk to people for a very long before I agree to meet them........apparantly I have trust issues!!!:wink: laugh drinker

<----ya me city girlglasses

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Wed 08/20/08 01:54 AM

I dont know about you but I talk to people for a very long before I agree to meet them........apparantly I have trust issues!!!:wink: laugh drinker

<----ya me city girlglasses
noway I LOVE YOUR NEW CONTACTS,,,wink,,,lol

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:24 AM

I dont know about you but I talk to people for a very long before I agree to meet them........apparantly I have trust issues!!!:wink: laugh drinker

<----ya me city girlglasses


I met him when he was home for thanksgiving last November, saw him again a few times at Christmas break, then about once a week from May til July then we really started hanging out. He's not an online meet, it's an IRL meet. (Friend of a friend kinda thing) He was always very proud of his school and his degree but never put anyone down because of it. He has 4 sisters which the last time we went out took me to meet 2 of them, so I ASSUMED he respected women.

Almost like he was on his best behavior then decided it was time to let it all hang out....frustrated

Etrain's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:26 AM


I dont know about you but I talk to people for a very long before I agree to meet them........apparantly I have trust issues!!!:wink: laugh drinker

<----ya me city girlglasses


I met him when he was home for thanksgiving last November, saw him again a few times at Christmas break, then about once a week from May til July then we really started hanging out. He's not an online meet, it's an IRL meet. (Friend of a friend kinda thing) He was always very proud of his school and his degree but never put anyone down because of it. He has 4 sisters which the last time we went out took me to meet 2 of them, so I ASSUMED he respected women.

Almost like he was on his best behavior then decided it was time to let it all hang out....frustrated


flowerforyou flowerforyou sorry lilyflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 08/20/08 09:28 AM
I was drinking my morning coffee thinking about you sugarplum.... I saw the Tribe won. Too bad you didn't! Okay, that was lame-O. Anyhoo, I want to hear all about tonight... this one I'm thinking could go either way. Of course I hope you hit one out of the park.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:29 AM

flowerforyou flowerforyou sorry lilyflowerforyou flowerforyou


Meh, no worries, I'm not heartbroken I'm not sure I have one anymore...