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he is not sencetive at all. he doesn't buy me anything. the whole time we have been together he has never bought me anything that was just for me. sure he pays the bills and i spend his money on house hold itmes and food and clothes. but he never has got me any thing special. no birthdays or valentines. nothing. should i be worried about that. or am i just being selfish and self centered. i have told him how i feel many times but he does not listen.
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If you've told him that their is a problem and he wont talk about it and you two dont get a chance to work on it then it seems he has already given up.
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Sounds like maybe you guys ought to go to marriage counseling.
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Sounds like maybe you guys ought to go to marriage counseling.  yeah
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya?????
Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. |
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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Sat 08/16/08 01:20 AM
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. |
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he is not sencetive at all. he doesn't buy me anything. the whole time we have been together he has never bought me anything that was just for me. sure he pays the bills and i spend his money on house hold itmes and food and clothes. but he never has got me any thing special. no birthdays or valentines. nothing. should i be worried about that. or am i just being selfish and self centered. i have told him how i feel many times but he does not listen. ben there done that.. I ditched his azzz.... there are better men in the great big world.. go search.. his behavior is called.. self absorbed gready..selfish...me me only man.... best of luck to u... don't waste ur life with unhappiness...  
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we did the counceling thing. now we live 200 miles apart.how can guy give up without ever trying.
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. Thank u................ I haven't dated anyone and didn't come here for that.. I want to talk to ppl and have fun..and talk abut real life... ur a intelligent young man.... 
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From what you wrote this is how he has always been. I wouldn't worry about it and instead accept that fact. If he is not willing to change I don't know what you can do.
Are there other things besides this? I have to think there are for you to question his love. |
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From what you wrote this is how he has always been. I wouldn't worry about it and instead accept that fact. If he is not willing to change I don't know what you can do. Are there other things besides this? I have to think there are for you to question his love.  
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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we did the counceling thing. now we live 200 miles apart.how can guy give up without ever trying. |
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause. |
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i dont want everything under the sun. if he made me something i would be happy. its the thought put into finding something. you are walking around and you see something and it makes you think of that special person. so you get it because you want them to have it.
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From what you wrote this is how he has always been. I wouldn't worry about it and instead accept that fact. If he is not willing to change I don't know what you can do. Are there other things besides this? I have to think there are for you to question his love. except..???? he's not willing to change....????? U don't know what she can do...??? Divorce and get rid of the f*ck... dust off her fanny....like all of us diviced ppl... heal..and move on.... yikes.... been there and going to be ther again..when I find the idiot Army deserter..found that out to late... 
just this time..no tears..no dusting needed... just sign on the dotted line and get out of my life...no see..no thoughts..never happened... 
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause. That is true, I see where you were coming from now. |
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause. hahahahahaha. this is the only site im on. the internet is big place. i met him on the internet 4 years ago. |
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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Sat 08/16/08 01:20 AM
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i dont want everything under the sun. if he made me something i would be happy. its the thought put into finding something. you are walking around and you see something and it makes you think of that special person. so you get it because you want them to have it. |
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Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya????? Just a thought........ Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be. In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site. I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause. hahahahahaha. this is the only site im on. the internet is big place. i met him on the internet 4 years ago. I decline my previous advice. |
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