Topic: my husbnd
iRon's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:28 AM





Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya?????


Just a thought........


Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be.




In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site.


I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause.



hahahahahaha. this is the only site im on. the internet is big place. i met him on the internet 4 years ago.


I decline my previous advice.


Why would you decline? That just means he is internet smart and can check where she as been if he wants...

Would she want her husband going to signal bars? There is no difference. There are people that can see this place as no different than a single bar.

I am not a bad guy here. I am the only one here that has the guts to point out that this may not be the best place for a "married woman" and there may be consequences in what is alread a relationship not going well.

Believe it or not, I am looking out for her. Playing devils advocate. Especially when there many other websites with other married women that can help with no consequences to her actions.



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Sat 08/16/08 01:29 AM
I understand this woman completely!!! She is my mother but 30 or 40 years ago. It got to the point where she would get really upset that my dad would buy her a frying pan for her birthday or a toaster for their anniversary.

Finally.....I would tell him.......She wants flowers and she doesnt want to have to tell you to buy them!!! He was clueless!!! Alot of men are, but not all!!! The only thing is he only hears once and then bought her flowers......the same kind for every occasion!!!

He does the same to me for xmas.....buys me perfume.......the same kind that MY SISTER liked 10 years ago......I just smile and thank him. He really is trying!flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:30 AM






Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya?????


Just a thought........


Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be.




In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site.


I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause.



hahahahahaha. this is the only site im on. the internet is big place. i met him on the internet 4 years ago.


I decline my previous advice.


Why would you decline? That just means he is internet smart and can check where she as been if he wants...

Would she want her husband going to signal bars? There is no difference. There are people that can see this place as no different than a single bar.

I am not a bad guy here. I am the only one here that has the guts to point out that this may not be the best place for a "married woman" and there may be consequences in what is alread a relationship not going well.

Believe it or not, I am looking out for her. Playing devils advocate. Especially when there many other websites with other married women that can help with no consequences to her actions.





I don't decline because of you mate, I decline because of her deceptive practices.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:30 AM

I understand this woman completely!!! She is my mother but 30 or 40 years ago. It got to the point where she would get really upset that my dad would buy her a frying pan for her birthday or a toaster for their anniversary.

Finally.....I would tell him.......She wants flowers and she doesnt want to have to tell you to buy them!!! He was clueless!!! Alot of men are, but not all!!! The only thing is he only hears once and then bought her flowers......the same kind for every occasion!!!

He does the same to me for xmas.....buys me perfume.......the same kind that MY SISTER liked 10 years ago......I just smile and thank him. He really is trying!flowerforyou


So say it?

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:31 AM
It comes down to honesty, if you cannot be honest with your partner maybe that is not your partner to begin with? Honesty is key to a relationship...bibble babble on a forum is not.

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Sat 08/16/08 01:32 AM
Morality coming from a guy who wants a fbuddy!!!noway laugh laugh noway

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:32 AM

Morality coming from a guy who wants a fbuddy!!!noway laugh laugh noway


Me?

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Sat 08/16/08 01:33 AM


Morality coming from a guy who wants a fbuddy!!!noway laugh laugh noway


Me?
No........noway noway noway noway

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Sat 08/16/08 01:33 AM
He knows who he is!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

zanne46's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:35 AM




Perhaps if a "MARRIED WOMEN" was not hanging on a "DATING SITE" things may go better for ya?????


Just a thought........


Welcome and I hope you find what you are looking for, whatever that may be.




In her defense it is a friend site not necessarily a dating site.


I understand that, you understand that but would her husband? ...They are already having issues, does she need more.....Is the consequences of her being here worth it. Well only she can answer that but there are many outer sites for married women to go that could help her more and not cause the issues being here COULD cause.



hahahahahaha. this is the only site im on. the internet is big place. i met him on the internet 4 years ago.


hey I did the same thing...been 3 yrs now that I haven't seen him noe ever want to..

big mistake..

simply sign on the dotted line..

oh and a group of Marines know the whole storiy and the bad e-mails I have...they want to kick his azz..

can't have that haqppen..

internet relations and marriages SOMETIMES do work...but when u run into that brck wall..man ur screwed...

sick

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Sat 08/16/08 01:37 AM
Men are yucky!!!!noway laugh noway laugh

iRon's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:44 AM

Morality coming from a guy who wants a fbuddy!!!noway laugh laugh noway


If you knew me and stoped judging me you would like me, most people do. You know I have always respect you. You are smart, kind and a lady with intellect. Just because I want something you don't, does not make me a bad person.

So get off your hi horse be nice and open you mind you will be better person fpr it.

I hope to find a person I can care about and have the time for someday. Right now I need to get my child in college and my job takes up a lot time. I need money for my kids college and thats my priority. I am still a human and I miss the touch of a women. Sorry if you cant understand that but I not a bad person because of what I want.

Peace

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Sat 08/16/08 01:44 AM
i always try to remember that there are two sides to every story and that it would be very hard to give someone the best advice if you only know one side ..if you need advice i would say BOTH of you should seek counseling and air out your differences ...or learn to communicate ..jmo

playwithmeoooolala's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:47 AM
if he bought me a toaster it would have been nice. i guess if not looking all over the net to find a better site to share a problem =as if you know whats better= is somehow immoral then you must be dressed in white. you should not throw rock in glass house.

DestinysDream's photo
Sat 08/16/08 02:12 AM
answers.yahoo.com

G/L

playwithmeoooolala's photo
Sat 08/16/08 02:20 AM
thanks. let me change my uestion.

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Sat 08/16/08 05:08 AM
Alot of extreme suggestions. How about accept that this is the way he is. He may or not change. Maybe look at why this is so important to YOU.
jmho

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Sat 08/16/08 05:18 AM
you look like a girl who has tasted a lot of men so i guess you would know.

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Sat 08/16/08 05:19 AM
Been there done that too girl! Dump his a**! It's not the monetary value or just wanting something to "show off"....it's the meaning behind it.....be it the 5 cent gumball ring or a picked daisy from the yard....it's the meaning behind it and if he can't show u how he feels with a mindless jesture? Time to let him go.....

FYI? I bought my own things.....my own flowers, for many years. I still do it to this day :) I never wait for anyone to buy them for me....It makes my day happy.

Isn't that what matters?

hinkypoepoe's photo
Sat 08/16/08 05:25 AM

Men are yucky!!!!noway laugh noway laugh


you look like a girl who has tasted a lot of men so i guess you would know.