I agree with you 100%...there are those that CAN'T see beyond your "physical challenge" because they are SCARED.

Did you ever take into consideration people that aren't challenged get shot down too?!
The men you are talking to may just not be attracted to you.
...Maybe you aren't the type of female they are looking for (not to say that's a bad thing)
I could imagine most men beating around the bush and not giving you a direct answer because they DON'T want to be "that" guy that shoots you down because of your "uniqueness".

People get shot down everyday for VARIOUS reasons...

I guess I felt the need to remind you if you keep getting upset about getting shot down then YOU are the one making the issue regarding your "condition".
I hope you understand this isn't a direct attack on you.

Good luck and God bless you

Ohh girl some people are so narrow minded they can't see that they could be missing out on the greatest thing in there lives. Yours is the chair mine is the weight yeah I can fix mine and working on it.

Some all they seem to see is one in a chair and they forget to see the person sitting there. I will agree with you on that but........don't give up for there are ones that see past that chair. Believe me if they can not you don't want them in your life.

As Katie said your a Beautiful person inside and out. One day someone will see the true you and will be worthy of your love.

One of my stepsisters best girl friend was in a chair due to and Auto Accident. Actually we never paid it no mind she was lots of fun to be around and she found the love of her life even had a son. He pampered her and loved her more then anyone could have. He was not in a chair he saw her for who she was he was with her till the end. She ended up with Ms and her health finally failed but they were together many years and she was the happiest person around.

Matter of fact we envied the relationship they had not in a bad way but always made use wonder how come we could not find that Diamond in the rough that she was so blessed to have found.


So you just rant on make Men notice you one day they will open their eyes and see the real you.

Ok...THOSE are the ones that I mentioned aren't even worth the upset.

Seriously...I just didn't want you to get stuck in the frame of mind no one could be attracted to you because of your "Challenge".
There are guys out there that are just looking to screw women and move on.
I guess I just wanted to remind you it isn't just happening to you. You aren't alone in the quest to find love.

I explain AND show in my profile on here that I am in a wheelchair..I will never get out of the thing..The chair is here to stay..and 90% of the guys that write me say they had no clue about my chair and actually get MAD at me when they've "wasted their time" with the disabled girl from Alabama.

Then those guys are complete idiots. Not only for not reading the profile in the first place, but for not being open minded enough to even try to get to know you.