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Topic: what to do if your man is so protective and jealous?
MsCarmen's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:24 PM
I think I can safely say that there are a lot of us (both women and men) who have been in your shoes (I know I have). If there is nothing else that you listen to as far as advice goes, that's fine. BUT HEAR US LOUD AND CLEAR ON THIS ONE!!

We've been there, we know what the warning signs are, and we know what the outcome will be. So please, please take our advice and get out while you still can.

franshade's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:24 PM
Would not advise anyone to leave a relationship with limited information, as you and your partner are the only ones to know all info.

How long have you been with this person?

I dont agree with his controlling issues, but keep in mind, no one can make you do something you chose not to do. He cannot control you unless you allow it. JMO

and once you allow it, I have heard it gets worse... so be aware.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:28 PM
Pretty much what everyone said. Jealousy is not flattering so get over that and get down to the real reason he acts like he does. Is he trying to control you? If so, remember this, he will not stop trying to control you until he does, no matter what that entails.

resch's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:54 PM
L E A V E HIM! I went through 8.5 years of manipulation and it nearly put me in the asylum!

No man or woman is worth that!

daniel48706's photo
Mon 09/01/08 06:28 PM
very simply put, leave him. Talk to him first if yu can, l;et him know how you feel and that if he can not accept you for who you are, then yuo can not be together.

No one hes the right to control who you do and do not hang out with. The only thing they have a right to control is if they hang out with you as well.

Good luck hun, and best wishes.

Troublemaker7's photo
Mon 09/01/08 06:31 PM
That's a sign of someone who is controlling and insecure. Take it from me, you don't want to be with someone like that. It is sooooo much better to be with someone who trusts you completely. And everyone needs to have their own friends and interests outside of a relationship.

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