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Topic: Your looks
LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Thu 08/14/08 03:43 AM Edited by LouLou2 on Thu 08/14/08 03:45 AM
most likely because it is usually the first thing we are judged upon Not quite sure how this double post happened...

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Thu 08/14/08 03:43 AM Edited by LouLou2 on Thu 08/14/08 03:44 AM
most likely because it is usually the first thing we are judged upon Gotta agree with you here...and ain't it a damn shame?

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 08/14/08 03:58 AM
Well, yeah! I am a woman! Isn't that what we do?

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Thu 08/14/08 05:18 AM
Well, yeah! I am a woman! Isn't that what we do? yea i kno girl im a woman

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 08/14/08 05:24 AM
Well, yeah! I am a woman! Isn't that what we do? yea i kno girl im a woman Well when you are told basically your whole childhood that you are worthless and the more ugly child out of the whole bunch, you kinda start to trust that they are telling you the cold hard truth. I was always told by my family I was ugly. Although I really wasn't. But that kind of thing can mess you up your whole life. Even now my family thinks of me as the Ugly one. My sisters are BEAUTIFUL!! So I strive to look as best as I can.

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Thu 08/14/08 06:40 AM
WHAT!!! THATS FCD UP

Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Thu 08/14/08 06:52 AM
As closing time nears and you're a little schnockered. You ponder your options. At this point, looks don't matter a lick.

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Thu 08/14/08 06:56 AM
As closing time nears and you're a little schnockered. You ponder your options. At this point, looks don't matter a lick.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 08/14/08 06:56 AM
when i was younger i did...but sad to say, my self esteem is still low because it is hard to "undo" certain thoughts

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Thu 08/14/08 07:08 AM
when i was younger i did...but sad to say, my self esteem is still low because it is hard to "undo" certain thoughts yes i understand wat ur sayin my lady

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Thu 08/14/08 03:26 PM
As closing time nears and you're a little schnockered. You ponder your options. At this point, looks don't matter a lick. Is this the old "she's getting better every beer" philosophy of attraction? You are right, though, looks don't seem as important to me now that I am older. (I was thinking it was because I now realize that 'looks' don't last anyway. To the men who feel this same way, what is it that does matter to you now?

OpenWounds Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 335	Thu 08/14/08 03:40 PM
Yep, and it's probably cuz i look like a cross between quasimodo, john merrick and a foot.

VladTheInhailer Joined Thu 05/29/08 Posts: 416	Thu 08/14/08 04:08 PM
whats self esteem? i = fugly!

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Thu 08/14/08 04:09 PM
This used to be a very big problem for me...probably the biggest obstacle for me when it comes to dating... Nowadays I worry about that less. I've seen firsthand that when I walk more confidently (head up, no slouch), women immediately pick up on that and respond. Boy, it took enough years for me to learn that though.

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Thu 08/14/08 04:22 PM
Yep, and it's probably cuz i look like a cross between quasimodo, john merrick and a foot. :laug