Topic: Someone please tell me.....
michiganman3's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:59 PM
Too soon.

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Wed 08/13/08 09:59 PM
WHAT KIND OF RING???huh

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Wed 08/13/08 10:00 PM


What do you do when you have been dating someone less than a week (one who is awesome btw) that says I want to buy you a ring???

I think it is too soon but should the opportunity be blown away???


les then a week? To me, that would make me feel a little uncomfortable. Whats the ring for? i mean, where is he planing on going with this?


I think the ring would be all about commitment, but I could be wrong. He tried to say I love you also but I wouldn't let him say it. It's kinda scary to me. :smile:

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Wed 08/13/08 10:01 PM

WHAT KIND OF RING???huh


He said friendship....ya know like in high school. noway

darkowl1's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:02 PM
sounds like he maybe possessive, so watch out for entrapment of some kind.......be careful.flowers

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Wed 08/13/08 10:06 PM

sounds like he maybe possessive, so watch out for entrapment of some kind.......be careful.flowers


Thank you. I can't get into a relationship like that ever again. flowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:10 PM
take the ring, and bury him 6' under like what happens in marriage, but yur just lettin him know its gonna be an ealier death then xpected.!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh jk

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Wed 08/13/08 10:11 PM

take the ring, and bury him 6' under like what happens in marriage, but yur just lettin him know its gonna be an ealier death then xpected.!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh jk


LMAO rofl

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Wed 08/13/08 10:14 PM


WHAT KIND OF RING???huh


He said friendship....ya know like in high school. noway
I would decline at the moment......say its too soon.....but then again he wants to buy you a gift........a catch 22.......

Tell him to make you dinner instead!!flowerforyou

Socratease's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:14 PM
Agree with darkowl,thats a form of mental control in a way for some,like ownership in some minds...way too soon for a ring.Question being.. if its genuine affection and he wants to buy u a gift or have a way to feel closer to you with something affectionate that he gave,as in knowing u have a gift from him will make him feel closer to u in a way.It could be just kindness from puppy love,but either way its too soon to accept things beside admiration

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Wed 08/13/08 10:18 PM



WHAT KIND OF RING???huh


He said friendship....ya know like in high school. noway
I would decline at the moment......say its too soon.....but then again he wants to buy you a gift........a catch 22.......

Tell him to make you dinner instead!!flowerforyou


Good idea. happy

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Wed 08/13/08 10:19 PM
now if he wants to buy you a house.........THEN YOU TAKE IT!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 08/13/08 10:19 PM

Agree with darkowl,thats a form of mental control in a way for some,like ownership in some minds...way too soon for a ring.Question being.. if its genuine affection and he wants to buy u a gift or have a way to feel closer to you with something affectionate that he gave,as in knowing u have a gift from him will make him feel closer to u in a way.It could be just kindness from puppy love,but either way its too soon to accept things beside admiration


Thank you....makes sense. flowerforyou

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Wed 08/13/08 10:47 PM



What do you do when you have been dating someone less than a week (one who is awesome btw) that says I want to buy you a ring???

I think it is too soon but should the opportunity be blown away???


les then a week? To me, that would make me feel a little uncomfortable. Whats the ring for? i mean, where is he planing on going with this?


I think the ring would be all about commitment, but I could be wrong. He tried to say I love you also but I wouldn't let him say it. It's kinda scary to me. :smile:


from what you just said, you know the answer already.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:49 PM

What do you do when you have been dating someone less than a week (one who is awesome btw) that says I want to buy you a ring???

I think it is too soon but should the opportunity be blown away???


A ring after a week? I've been outdone by glitter? And all this time I thought flowers would work...grumble

challengingmind's photo
Sat 08/16/08 10:44 AM
follow your instincts...ive seen people get married after only two months of dating and have been together for thirty years and are still together
I have also seen couples who were together for ten years,got married then divorced a year later

challengingmind's photo
Sat 08/16/08 10:44 AM
follow your instincts...ive seen people get married after only two months of dating and have been together for thirty years and are still together
I have also seen couples who were together for ten years,got married then divorced a year later

No1sLove's photo
Sat 08/16/08 10:55 AM
Take him to the local arcade and point out the ring you like in the gumball machine. happy

Let him feed a few quarters into it, and when he doesn't produce the ring of your desire, tell him you like one of the others better anyway. flowerforyou

Win/Win

He has given you a token of his friendship, and you have allowed him to do so in a fashion that you can be comfortable with. I would think it would be great fun and a nice silly story to tell everyone who asks why you wear a Felix the Cat ring on your finger. laugh

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Sat 08/16/08 11:24 AM

Take him to the local arcade and point out the ring you like in the gumball machine. happy

Let him feed a few quarters into it, and when he doesn't produce the ring of your desire, tell him you like one of the others better anyway. flowerforyou

Win/Win

He has given you a token of his friendship, and you have allowed him to do so in a fashion that you can be comfortable with. I would think it would be great fun and a nice silly story to tell everyone who asks why you wear a Felix the Cat ring on your finger. laugh


Cute Idea!!!laugh

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 08/16/08 11:26 AM
my parents met and were married after 18 days and are still together after almost 38yrs.