I pursue, definitely. Then once you know I'm interested (There is NO WAY not to know, trust me), I leave it go. And it just naturally takes its course, with some give and take. If it is one sided after my initiation, then it dies out, as I'm not into takers.

Something with one of those big old-fashioned wooden steering wheels in front -- that would send some of my exes into palpitations for sure....!

Thats not good for me

Answer this question. How many will actually email a guy? and think, it's just the net. It's not like there face to face with anyone

I dont pursue at all.....Im hiding behind my computer!! But if I like someone I will most definately want to meet them!

The guy I'm talking to now... I mailed him first I think. We are in the "phone chat" stage, so that's good.

Ouch!... then again we don't follow directions

Point taken

Seriously.......I didnt know this but its true. They want to be told what to do.....apparantly they cant read our minds!!!

I wish i could read women's mind ... then again

I might go crazy ... so naw! i'm good

I don't want to

Some????

If i wonted to be told what to do. Id be a woman

Uh huh........Im not talking about being told what to do so much as being told what we want???? If you men were women you would KNOW WHAT WE WANT!!!

Who cares what you want, i got what i wanted and that all i need

i totally think women are more aggressive than in the past.and thats a good thing too

Aggressiveness, for the female, is oft calculated and careful...not the headlong rush to potential injury of feelings. Hence it behooves the male to recognize that the seemingly casual remarks are artfully designed and delivered with care...and always with a tactful method of avoiding a clinch too soon.

Outspokenness is a tool. Artfulness may result if the tool is used well, even aggressively at times.
It is best to be snared artfully and aggressively rather than clumsily. The downside is when the lady is practicing catch-and-release, because you are not a 'keeper' in her opinion.