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Topic: Guys - If you ask a girl to dance...
Jules0565's photo
Thu 08/07/08 08:30 PM




Sometimes your just not in the mood for dancing.. I would rather sit and shoot the chit or play pool, have a few beers.. rather than dance.. unless of course a good slow dance came on.
Im sure you've turned a person down for other reasons,right?


I'm quite sure we all have.
well that were some people might be offended,thats all.


I doubt it..generally they'd just go find someone else, no big deal. I was never mean in turning anyone away, I always explained that I just wasn't in the mood for dancing, just there to chill. It's not like I would turn them down, then the next song or same song, get up and dance with someone else, that never happened.

gypsysunrise's photo
Thu 08/07/08 08:47 PM
Yeah, that's me, too. I'm not rude about it.. And, it can be a guy i'm totally attracted to, I still turn him down politely if I don't feel like dancing. I wouldn't mind if he wanted to have a beer and talk, but when I don't feel like dancing, then I just don't.

Wow... I seriously didn't know that so many guys take it as "no interest".... =/

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/07/08 08:56 PM

Yeah, that's me, too. I'm not rude about it.. And, it can be a guy i'm totally attracted to, I still turn him down politely if I don't feel like dancing. I wouldn't mind if he wanted to have a beer and talk, but when I don't feel like dancing, then I just don't.

Wow... I seriously didn't know that so many guys take it as "no interest".... =/


Well..when ya get shot down enough times, they ALL start to sound like " not interested ".

Hell...I couldn't dance to save my life, so I just stopped trying.

Not to mention, I have heard that some women gauge a guy's sexual ability on the way he dances.

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Thu 08/07/08 08:59 PM




Sometimes your just not in the mood for dancing.. I would rather sit and shoot the chit or play pool, have a few beers.. rather than dance.. unless of course a good slow dance came on.
Im sure you've turned a person down for other reasons,right?


I'm quite sure we all have.
well that were some people might be offended,thats all.


If you're going to ask strangers to dance, you can't really expect them all to say yes.

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