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Topic: Why when I go out do I meet women who give me their #, then
Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Thu 08/07/08 02:30 PM
Maybe you should stick withthe sober ones...They may think they are sober,but really not ...Or they were just being nice asking 4 ur number....Anywho, don't worry about them...There are plenty of people out there They didn't ask for my # (anyway, are you saying I'm pathetic or something??) I asked for theirs. They easily could have given a fake but none of them did and 2 of them I know were sober for sure.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Thu 08/07/08 02:30 PM
Since I've been in Detroit I've met 4 women when I've gone out that seemed to have a mutual interest in me and 2 of them were stone sober. Yet when I call them they either put me off and then eventually blow me off or just straight blow me off??! What's up ladies?? If I meet a woman one night and she acts extremely interested, why the next day, or 2 or 3 days later do they blow me off???? Usually getting blown off is the mission

geon32000 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 32	Thu 08/07/08 02:31 PM
your doing something to push them away.. If they really are interested they will be trying to contact you also..

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Thu 08/07/08 02:34 PM
your doing something to push them away.. If they really are interested they will be trying to contact you also.. Really???

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 08/07/08 02:37 PM
your doing something to push them away.. If they really are interested they will be trying to contact you also.. I think your right. If a girl really likes you they usually let you know without a doubt. Thats been my experience.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 08/07/08 02:41 PM
If a woman likes you then they will start trying to be around you all the time.

bigjamiemac Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 57	Thu 08/07/08 02:48 PM
this is a common thing between men and woman,i mean everyone seems to be into the other person when there together but after the date and you both go back to normal lives it boils down to not having the connection after all..witch is called "buyers remorse"...i know that might not make sense but its like saying oh I'm getting that then getting to the check out,ahh well it did sound good now it don't ill just forget about it...its all about the first impression...its gotta be something she or he will remember the most and want to talk to you again.....

cougarluvr97 Joined Tue 05/20/08 Posts: 1	Thu 08/07/08 02:49 PM
The women are not mature enough to express that they are not interested.

JenniDoll Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 2	Thu 08/07/08 02:55 PM
To the topic starter , how many times does the same thing have to happen to you before you stop blaming other people and start to look at what you are doing wrong ? It has to be something you are doing , dont you think ? Try a new approach , reflect on your actions ....

marionikbarieh Joined Tue 07/08/08 Posts: 43	Thu 08/07/08 03:01 PM
maybe ur approach is all wrong,u might seem to eager for attention,sometimes we say too much,get the lay of the land first,if u get that,play hard to get that sometimes works

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 08/07/08 03:13 PM
Maybe you should stick withthe sober ones...They may think they are sober,but really not ...Or they were just being nice asking 4 ur number....Anywho, don't worry about them...There are plenty of people out there They didn't ask for my # (anyway, are you saying I'm pathetic or something??) I asked for theirs. They easily could have given a fake but none of them did and 2 of them I know were sober for sure. there could be a lot of reasons they chose not to talk to you after giving their numbers... They could have just been "nice" when they gave you their # and already decided they weren't going to talk to you. They could have just changed their mind. Next time, let them ask you for your #... and let them come to you

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Fri 08/08/08 06:55 AM
this is a common thing between men and woman,i mean everyone seems to be into the other person when there together but after the date and you both go back to normal lives it boils down to not having the connection after all..witch is called "buyers remorse"...i know that might not make sense but its like saying oh I'm getting that then getting to the check out,ahh well it did sound good now it don't ill just forget about it...its all about the first impression...its gotta be something she or he will remember the most and want to talk to you again..... Yeah, you must have read Mystery's book also lol but I forgot about that part! Thanks for the reminder.

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Fri 08/08/08 07:02 AM
Yeah, I think my man got it right. It's buyer's remorse. I had totally forgotten about that.

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Fri 08/08/08 07:15 AM
To the topic starter , how many times does the same thing have to happen to you before you stop blaming other people and start to look at what you are doing wrong ? It has to be something you are doing , dont you think ? Try a new approach , reflect on your actions .... Why are you getting so belligerant towards me? I realize the problem now but you don't need to be a b*tch about it.

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Fri 08/08/08 07:20 AM
how much time do you wait before calling them? what do you say? are you overly excessive on the compliments? do you push for another date? i think overall, a woman likes a man that plays a little hard to get. make her think make her wonder

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Fri 08/08/08 07:30 AM
Welcome to the jungle of single/dating life. Watch out there all type of creatures in here that will eat u alive. Or toy with u till they crush u. Why do you think people come to these sites so they can ramble on with having to face a person face to face. there are games on here also, u just have to choose if want to play or not. If u get #s and the girl doesn't want to give u a answer just ask straight up the what hells goin on yes or no and then u will know. Enjoy and good luck.

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Fri 08/08/08 12:11 PM
how much time do you wait before calling them? what do you say? are you overly excessive on the compliments? do you push for another date? i think overall, a woman likes a man that plays a little hard to get. make her think make her wonder lol, oh hell yeah I play hard to get. I go by the cat/string theory. If you pull as string just out of the reach of a cat, it will chase it. If you put the string right in front of it, the cat gets bored and moves on ;)