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Topic: Why when I go out do I meet women who give me their #, then
Intrepid00's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:15 PM
Since I've been in Detroit I've met 4 women when I've gone out that seemed to have a mutual interest in me and 2 of them were stone sober. Yet when I call them they either put me off and then eventually blow me off or just straight blow me off??! What's up ladies?? If I meet a woman one night and she acts extremely interested, why the next day, or 2 or 3 days later do they blow me off????

Jill298's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:16 PM
I've been asking that question about men for years laugh

Jill298's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:16 PM
so if you get an answer... please do share with the groupflowerforyou

Amalie's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:17 PM

so if you get an answer... please do share with the groupflowerforyou


Pppplease....frustrated

no photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:17 PM
some like to play games

Lily0923's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:18 PM
What is it you want from them? If they are interested and you call too much or push too hard they probably take a step back.

If they want to just casually date, you gotta give that to them, if they are interested before you meet and then after not so much maybe they didn't feel the sparks...

or maybe they are bi-polar and you don't want that crap anyways...

Who cares why... move on.

merlin2525's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:18 PM

so if you get an answer... please do share with the groupflowerforyou

I need to know alsoflowerforyou

goofyyankee06's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:19 PM
I had a couple of guys to that to me. But if I was back in my hometown in Detroit I would give you a try, and most def call you saying i had a great time or something and would like to see you again

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:20 PM

Since I've been in Detroit I've met 4 women when I've gone out that seemed to have a mutual interest in me and 2 of them were stone sober. Yet when I call them they either put me off and then eventually blow me off or just straight blow me off??! What's up ladies?? If I meet a woman one night and she acts extremely interested, why the next day, or 2 or 3 days later do they blow me off????
:smile: Perhaps they find you attractive but something else about you puts them off.flowerforyou No offense.flowerforyou Im just trying to be helpful.bigsmile

Jill298's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:20 PM
maybe their boyfriend was there and they couldn't answerlaugh

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:21 PM
Because they get your number, but then their boyfriends forbid them from taking calls from you.

Intrepid00's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:22 PM

so if you get an answer... please do share with the groupflowerforyou
lol, no problem

Etrain's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:22 PM
Oh there just playing games...playing the field...move ondrinker drinker drinker

Intrepid00's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:23 PM

I had a couple of guys to that to me. But if I was back in my hometown in Detroit I would give you a try, and most def call you saying i had a great time or something and would like to see you again
thank you:smile: flowerforyou

Amathyst2's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:23 PM
There several factors that remains to be seen. It could be a number of things.

1. She really wasn't interested. She thought she was at the time and changed her mind.

2. She is just really busy right now and needs a little space.

3. She met someone else that captured her interest and you are no longer a prospect.

4. She has something to hide and skeletons in her closet.

etc......

Intrepid00's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:24 PM

Because they get your number, but then their boyfriends forbid them from taking calls from you.
I got their number, they didn't get mine.

Intrepid00's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:25 PM

Oh there just playing games...playing the field...move ondrinker drinker drinker
I'm trying to play the field and move on...but how when the whole field does the same thing to me?????!!!!

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:26 PM


Because they get your number, but then their boyfriends forbid them from taking calls from you.
I got their number, they didn't get mine.


Like I was saying...

Etrain's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:26 PM


Oh there just playing games...playing the field...move ondrinker drinker drinker
I'm trying to play the field and move on...but how when the whole field does the same thing to me?????!!!!

Don't play the game...Ignore them and they will comelaugh laugh laugh ....works for me anyhow:tongue:

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 08/07/08 02:27 PM
Maybe you should stick withthe sober ones...They may think they are sober,but really notdrinks ...Or they were just being nice asking 4 ur number....Anywho, don't worry about them...There are plenty of people out therehappy

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